Hey @ all..!!! I am sure that there is at least one other person that has had a hard time with approaching and in the same sense grabbing the attention in a way that will make her lock right into you…Just want to know if you guy’s could give me a few pointer’s or maybe some healthy advice on some ways to make it easier to approach, maybe some successful things that have worked for you…thanks fella’s…..

I have been on here only a few days and the best advice I have recieved about AA (Aproach Anxiety) is that you just have to conquer it.

How do you do that? Easy to Answer and hard to do, Repitition.

They only way your going to overcome that fear of approaching beautiful women is to approach them so often that it becomes like anything else you do in your life.

Like riding a bike. At first it is kinda difficult and you are wobbling back and forth, you look like an idiot and you feel like your just gonna fall over and over and never get it right. BUT!!! Eventually you start to notice that if you do certain things then it will work better. And now I am pretty sure almost everyone in here can ride a bike like your on autopilot. Like it is nothing.

Approaching is the exact same thing.

You just gotta do it.

This really helped me. And IS helping me. I go out every day and meet random new people.

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/innergame.htm#107367695

I hope I helped you bro.


Also, if people don't mind... a link to this in the sticky newbie questions (under #6) would be pretty awesome.

2 words

"3 seconds"

any long and your not going to do it anyways.

Plus you can't bitch about not sleeping with a girl you have never spoken to

nah man theres no easy way to approach! what you can try is ask people for directions or something silly, like hey guys do u know where the bathroom is? omg how can u not know! what type of girls are you anyway? hellllllloooooooo

get talkative before hand then do ure standard open -> transition!

listen to some good music first, if u get too nervous, its time to find a wing! make sure hes fun and u can kick the shit with him!

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