ok so we were at a friends birthday party at her shore house and everyone was sleeping over. i am talking to this girl all day and i know iam in.

so its around 4am and everyone has slowly passed out except for us two, we're layin on the bed talking and start kissing (now i've only kissed a few girls and never slept in the same bed with one overnite.) so i just freeze and don't know how to escalate it.

i've worked so hard to get to this point but never thought about what to do after the kissing, like knowing when its ok to start transitioning my hand under her shirt and so on up the ladder...

any advice?

just do it, there is no "right" way, just dont rush it, aka kiss then straight to her vagina. aka slowly touch her back, arms, stomach hips, then by the time u know it, ur there.

a lot easier said then done lol

i mean your over thinking, are you scared of what her reaction might be ? just start by moving your hand up her thighs and stuff if she is uncomfortable she will just move it back to her waist (if that is the case you didn't build enough comfort) just cuddle her for a bit and build more trust and try again. its not that hard, if she keeps moving you away but keeps kissing you then you should stop everything, wreck the mood. wierd i know but trust me if she was having a good time she will start kissing you again and let you this time.if she moves you away and doesn't continue kissing you...you have made her a little uncomfortable cuddle more and leave on a good note and try some other time. you gotta take risks man !!

hmm maybe i was a lil scared of what her reaction would have been... or if i were to mess up whatever i would have tryed to do and (since she was roomates with my good friend) discuss it with my friend (as all girls do) it would have been a lil embarassing...

and having all that going threw my head is prolly the reason why i froze...
what'ya think?

True ....its hard, thats why "you gotta take risks mate" what if she didn't resist you had great sex and you woke up in the morning rolled over and there she was....thats what you gotta aim for, plus it wont be embarassing, all you did was move your hand up her thigh ....big deal....what can she say... you've got the wrong mindset. change it ..its hard at times "winners take risks, risk takers win....oh and sex isnt that hard you cant tell if they like what your doing, moaning = good sex, shell give you directions....they want a good time too ya know... if your doing something wrong shell re-position herself and stuff....... remember "PUSSY'S GET NO PUSSY".....
Matt C.

thats the new quote that iam going by...lol

glad to be of service.....you could always thow me some rep ??...hint...hint....ohh and give me a buzz when you are writing up that LR man...('')