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PostPosted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 3:44 am 
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Hey guys, Im not new to the whole pick up thing i know alot of information ive been following up on it for awhile. I just have a problem, i have noticed i have this problem called Facial Tics which cause my face muscles to spasm such as rapid eye blinking, squinting, neck stretching, and other ugly looking thing that i dont have control over. There are no cures and the only medication SPAM have horrible side effects including death. Now my question is would this be a DLV? Should i worry about this? it can get pretty bad sometimes and i feel like the girls wont find me attractive because of it. What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 4:41 am 
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I know that from time to time i have hand tics. now this can be a flaw if you make it just tell the girl your problem when it happens and just make it seem like its not a big deal.
hope that helps a little


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so telling her that i have a problem will now make my value lower?


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When did you develop these facial tics?? Need more detail to conclude.


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ive had them my whole life i just recently figured out what they are. i used to just think it was a stupid habit i had


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Facial tics are nothing more than trapped negative energy (emotions) in your face. Try the Sedona Method. Your subconscious is built up with charged memories and fears that it's like a pressure cooker. You must have bottled up or suppressed a lot of emotions.

Tell you what. Sit down or lay down somewhere private where there are no disturbances. Think of something you've been keeping trapped inside and aren't confronting. Let it come up as an emotion...a feeling. Don't judge it. Just feel it and welcome it into your body. Cry if you have to. Let it all out. But don't judge it. Just release as much as you can. The releasing you are doing is MANDATORY. When you feel like you cannot release anymore, you should feel a weight has been lifted.

Come back to it as much as you can afterward. You have a lot of trapped energy in your face. Notice when you are TENSING it. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Just keep doing the exercises whenever you can sit down quietly or whenever a negative emotion surfaces or you find yourself being hard on yourself. Eventually, your facial tics will go away. -cshadyp


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I usually focus on hearing or feeling the sides of my temple. This usually lets go of all my facial tension.

Id be ridiculously surprised if you're all heart and mind intent on listening to the wind, and still be blinking eyes and squinting at the same time.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 3:24 am 
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My advice would be that this is inner game problems manifesting themselves in facial tics. Do you find that you have these tics more often when you are around other people, friends, opening, do you have them when you are alone?

Everybody has some tics and DLVs, it's just a matter of trying to do them the least amount as possible.

I have found that being genuinely happy with yourself is the best remedy for any type of anxiety / tics you may have


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Hey man, I got friend who has a lot of tics, little hand gestures, head movement, all that type of stuff, he actually has a mild form of turrets syndrome, obviously not the swearing kind. If you do these all the time then this maybe the cause and you should get checked out. If it only occurs when you are nervous and approaching, then either practice makes perfect, or you can tell her you have turrets and use some cocky and funny stuff, like, start swearing at her and calling her names. If you play with it a little it will show a lot of confidence that your cool about it and still think you can pick her up. If you get a chance watch the video of david deangelos interview with (i dont remember his name) the guy in the wheel chair. He really knows how to use his problems as an advantage!


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