Is it always like you use it after A LOT of attraction is built up, or am i just using it wrong. The reason for this is that i will have a girl where i
interpret her actions to be totally all over me. SHE will start using kino subconsciously, which is how i know she likes me, then ill return the kino, and she gets turned off. Wtf, is it because i haven't"disarmed" the girls next to her, which aren't even her friends? What should i fix

I would guess you delivery of the kino is bad and so the girl reacts to it in a negative way. But you also have to keep in mind that just because a girl touches you does not mean they are interested in you. Some girls are just flirty and will do such things out of nature. Wait until the girl gives you more kino before you go in to kino her as her doing it one or two times isn't really showing interest. Doing it 5 or more times is generally a show of interest.

hmmm i think its opposite i start kino within like a minute of the set opening cause i hav my energy up and the kino is just a way to familiarize her w/ my touch. to do this i use kino through my stories about tattoos and such things.Possibly her touching u could be a shit test to see if you ar desperate for the touch and wen u respond thats a failure(just a thought) So i suggest turn your energy up and kino throughout the sarge(small things like a tap on the wrist or shoulder)

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how do you kino...does it natually flow with the interaction or do you make it like a checkpoint item you have to incorporate into the interaction. There's a difference between saying, "Hey check out what happened to me yesterday!" while touching a girl on the shoulder at the same time versus touching a girl on the shoulder and saying, "You have real cool energy about you." versus touching her shoulder while she talks about her pet dog.

Same type of kino in all 3 circumstances yet, 3 totally different implications. The first one makes it look as if it was a natural non-threatening gesture. You could get away with this pretty early.

The second one, the kino adds to the effect of what is being said and has more of a sexual vibe. Most of the time you want to have some attraction and comfort built before doing this.

The last situation the kino speaks and nothing else really does. You'd want quite a bit of comfort built before doing it this way.

Kino speaks. If you do it well you can have a girl craving your touch...do it wrong and you'll come off like Chester the Molester.

You have to evaluate how you are using your kino and how you are using it in conjunction with your verbal communication.

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