I took a two week challenge in order to get my online game down. Spent almost all of my free time online, messaging girl after girl after girl. We're talking extensive, heavy experimentation here. As the 14th day begins, I'm to the point of very consistently getting phone numbers (I personally don't bother with transitioning to messenger anymore, I go straight to cell).

My online game is now solid.

Here's the basic framework of my plan: text a few times, and then surprise with a phone call right after she sends one of her responses.

Since this forum has been so invaluable to where I am now, I'd like to see if anyone has any advice/suggestions for texting and cell phone calls.

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Fuck routines and indirect game.

Um. Enlighten me of this online game, if you will (by PM, preferably).


The way the phone game usually works is that 1st call, you make an impression. Tell a funny story of something that happened to you recently, preferably with DHV spikes. HANG UP. You're busy. 2nd call, say you're going out to have an awesome time doing __________, and she's INVITED. If you're a no-go at that station wait a while and try again. Don't keep texting or calling when you're getting nowhere.

I travel for work, which works to my advantage. I don't text or call chicks during the week because, why bother? I can't see them! It honest to god gets girls to respond on the weekends when I AM home.

I thought the same way about MySpace girls... I'll contact them by cell once if they're across the country, and then I'm finished. Because I can't see them anyway... (they were unknowingly practice).

But today I searched out girls in my area, and am going to escalate it into a physical meeting.

Anyway, I think that's an interesting idea with hanging up. That will certainly make an impression in and of itself.

And worry not, I shall not keep trying to make contact if I'm getting nothing. Ever since reading Robert Greene's book, I've strictly followed qui-pro-quo: something for something with women.

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Fuck routines and indirect game.

So you know, I don't mean hang up as in abruptly hanging up after DHV'ing. I mean ending the conversation abruptly with an, "I have to go..."

I'll probably be trying both.

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Fuck routines and indirect game.

lol! Hey, you don't learn unless you experiment. I personally wouldn't, but that just means you're more socially savvy than I am and are willing to push the envelope where I wouldn't. Go for it!

ok so this has ahppened twice after the same amount of messages basikly..what am i doing wrong?

me:hey u ok
ur a good looking girl. What do u do with urself? xx

HB7: Hellooo x
im alright thank you yourselff?
noo im not .. umm what do you mean what do i with myself ?
lool
x

me:yh i been good thanks..
oh yh i forgot ur not alowed to admit it r ya lol
well i go college up basildon for most of the week..
ur turn? lol xx

HB7:good good
im onlly saying the trutth ..
oo very nicee what do you study in college ?
i go 6th form in wickford ..
x

me:i study construction, my lst year der now..
ah really, wt did ya stay on and take den?
i was gonna do 6th form but they still treat ya like a child dnt they lol xx

HB7:oo very nice hun
im doing a levels in english lit and lang, art and design, media and genreal
yerh sometimes I wished I didn't stay on
but I went college and didn't like it..
soo it was the last option
x

me:oh yh and wts this dream job ur going for with dem den?
yh they both suk really..gota stick them out to go uni though and make up for it all with constant raving
where about r u of a weekend then? xx

HB7:I want to do something wiithin the fashion and media industry but I know it won't happen
yoou ?
ohhh no not about uni stooof that! lool what you wanna do in uni ?
umm nothing much think going dukes(a night club) not to suree yet
youu ?
x

me:how cum u dnt think it wil happen? there plenty of ppl already in it, it had to happen for dem so y not u?..
although i cant talk, dream job is something to do with art really but i dnt think dat gonna happen, and wt can i say i wanna be rich lol..
so yh im going uni to drink, party and mabey a bit of civil engineering if i get time lol
y u decide again uni den?
ah a basildon girl, cant say i been der yet, even though my college is der..ill be up rom or chelmsford if i go clubbing probs xx

she hasent replied for 3days even though i know she has been online talking..how to get it rolling again?

twice with different girls by the way

Taste21, that kinda strikes me as AFC chit chat. Your asking her the same questions that just about every guy asks, which is probably boring her. i would think of something different or interesting to say, or else say nothing at all.

it has only been three days though. don't appear needy by pestering her over and over. if its not on, its not on.

read it bk and i see what u mean...i am going to leave it a few weeks and if she doesn't write bk wt could a message her to get her interested?

Your problem right now is that you're not interesting, yet. You presented this nice guy quality but nothing in that conversation (I only read a little bit to be honest) comes across as unforgettable. I didn't see much teasing or interesting stories. Make her chase you, it seems like you're the one asking questions and it comes across as an interview.
She's into fashion so tell her that you read about the latest colors in men's fashion (which are horrible btw, lol) in Men's Health and see what she thinks. Women take a lot of interest in hair, nails and clothes for a reason, they're interested in them. Then get into something that you're passionate about and get her interested. You got to make it so she can think about you again.
She's not going to run into many constructions sites and think of you. This is why giving her a cheap necklace at the end of the night and telling her you plan on getting it back is so powerful. She will remember you every time she looks at that necklace.

only recently found this forum and been reading through 2day..so much material and ideas on here..i now see where im going wrong big time, im the same as everyone else..time to change

gave it another go and got a response straight away, dunno wt to say bk really but will think of something..tnx for help

me:
right u like fashion..wt do u think the best hairstyle is that a man can av?
yh uni is all about the partys..and i though u were a party girl, oh well ):
xx


HB7
Today at 19:43
ummm best style for a boy..
well on boys i think the comb over, the little fringe with the rest spiking up but quite long hair lool
thats my opinion though i like the preppy look
yerhh nothing better than partying .. im just getting all me mates to go uni soo i can drive on up there and stay with them
lool
x

yeah net game is kinda hard as you really have no idea what the girl is thinking...but two things to keep in mind

1 If the girl is hot then she is almost certainly talking to multiple guys.

2 Like in person these multiple guys are all saying the same thing

If she is hot never say it, well atleast dont bother commenting on it for the first couple of times chatting, she knows it and every other guy comments on it, if looks are brought up seem offhanded and aloof, say something along the lines of yeah you look pretty nice, or if she is a real stunner say 'yeah i was kinda ignoring the fact that you are attractive, its pretty common these days'.

Net game is a complete waste of time unless its to a view to meet, thats when the game really starts. I have found a free website here in australia that has loads of good looking women looking to date in my area. I have met a lot, slept with a lot and at the moment am kinda seeing someone who i met of there...

and it also means you arent socially aware to know that you dont just smack the phone shut after ending your story. thats retarded