I am working on this girl (not just for a one night stand) who is a waitress and has a boyfriend (I don't know how long). I can only see her at her restaurant since she won't go out with me. (I think she feels bad)
I have built a good amount of attraction (gaming) and comfort (know her family)
What is the best way for me to proceed? Keep on going seeing her at the restaurant until she breaks up with him or try to force the issue by trying a Kiss-Close? or freeze her until...?
I learned she had a boyfriend b/c he called her while she was talking to me at the restaurant, she has never mentioned it before and has always told me she wanted to go out with me but just couldn't right now and would tell me when she could. She has told me she was going out with a friend to eat a couple of times, but never mentioned he was her bf.
I have met her outside the restaurant through family members so this is not a waitress pickup, I've known her for years and she's been interested in years but I was never available (location; gf; job...)
Any ideas on what is my best move...?