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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:31 pm 
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Ahh, I'm seeing what I consider a herendous mistake being made here. Look, correct me if I'm wrong, but state is not something so mechanically attained. Furthermore, using the mechanics of another to attain your own state seems even more fore gone from what would actually make you achieve it.

I suppose asking what others do is prat of learning what you should do (OR MORE IMPORTANTLY NOT DO - refer to my previous comment). With that being said, PLEASE take note I, as well as MANY others I've spoken to (have you watched Blue Print completely?) find the idea of "getting into state" problematic because you can't force it.

Its sorta like being alpha. When I initially read alpha patterns and attempted to apply them, it did more harm than good. But, as I began to naturalize, calibrate, and most importantly relieve myself of some ego (mediation anyone?) I became more and more alpha with out having to re-read cajun's advanced body language post 309583094 times. lol.

Just go out and BE. Have a good time. Don't sarge, party! Have fun whether or not you meet a girl. Have fun meeting girls you don't plan on # closing! Just BE.


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An important thing to remember is that even if you're not in state, GO ANYWAY.

The best way to get in state during tough nights is to just forget about it, do what you were already planning to do, and just hope or assume that you'll get into state later.

Whenever I feel stuck in my head and afraid to act, I just tell myself to GO ANYWAY.


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An important thing to remember is that even if you're not in state, GO ANYWAY.

The best way to get in state during tough nights is to just forget about it, do what you were already planning to do, and just hope or assume that you'll get into state later.

Whenever I feel stuck in my head and afraid to act, I just tell myself to GO ANYWAY.
And I've bet you've even closed on those "GO ANYWAY" nights haven't you :)


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@A minor: Maybe you cant force state, but certain behaviors do help to bring it on naturally.

Smiling consistantly works wonders, especially if you smile at girls on the street, especially when they smile back.

Thinking about good times, happy days, and past exploits is great! Especially if you are focused on negative issues. Push the negative thoughts out of your mind not by focusing on them and saying "I dont want to think about X" but instead by changing your entire thoughts and focus over to Y or Z.

Listening to energetic music, if you relax and just get into the beat, will certainly elevate your emotional state. Thats why we have music.

After that, it is pretty easy to just BE in state, to know you are out and having fun and that is what its all about, and then yeah, the girls gravitate towards you. :)


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An important thing to remember is that even if you're not in state, GO ANYWAY.

The best way to get in state during tough nights is to just forget about it, do what you were already planning to do, and just hope or assume that you'll get into state later.

Whenever I feel stuck in my head and afraid to act, I just tell myself to GO ANYWAY.
And I've bet you've even closed on those "GO ANYWAY" nights haven't you :)
Yeah I actually have.


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An important thing to remember is that even if you're not in state, GO ANYWAY.

The best way to get in state during tough nights is to just forget about it, do what you were already planning to do, and just hope or assume that you'll get into state later.

Whenever I feel stuck in my head and afraid to act, I just tell myself to GO ANYWAY.
And I've bet you've even closed on those "GO ANYWAY" nights haven't you :)
Yeah I actually have.
Yea. I've come to the same realization. No matter how out of state you are, plow forward. I've met some attractive girls on off nights. Though I must admit, since I go out solo having an off night can be quite stressful (since you have no one other than strangers to talk to) but still, yea, push forward :)


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