I'm going into college totally blind basically and i was wondering would it be a good idea to totally tranform who i am or just stay with who i am and play ti cool???

It depends on who are you right now!

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i suppose you make a valid point but i guess im happy with who i am now . almost 18 single about a few days away from college. i have f-closed the night with only 3 different girls in my entire life i might add but things arent bad for me. Its just I get some girls but never an HB or an HBS i seem to settle thats why im doing all this PUA stuff. Because im tired of settling and i wanna a girl who i can show off to the guys and be like . "yea, i hit that" But when i say change i mean what else can i do besides wear some mystery weird ass clothes. he can pull that off i cant. plz help



~Spazer

A. If you're gona change it has to be a real change down to your soul. You can't have this fake layer of lies on top masking the real you underneath. You'll just eat yourself up.

B. If you really wana feel the change whatever your hair looks like now change it. In fact change your style multiple times over the next year and ask girls what they think about each style. Then pick the one that seems the best. Get groomed good. Try to keep 2-3 day beard/shadow at all times, unless you have a goatee or actual beard or whatever. Women love the scruffy look plus it makes you feel like a tough guy. IMO. Use a low set beard trimmer to keep the look on. Makes you look like you've spent the night at other peoples places and haven't had time to shave. Lastly, start buying nice clothes, and ask women to go shoping with and for you.

Basically a good haircut w/ good clothes, but scruff shows that you try to keep yourself up but that girls keep you so busy you just cant look perfect. .Which makes girls attracted to you. And def hit the wieght room if you dont already

These are all things i did when i first entered college. Made me feel like a new man. Course i did them slowly as i figured them out but yeah.

Just be true to yourself and the rest will follow.

hi.i m going to start collge too,but here in toronto?got any advice to pickin up hb in collge?

How did you ever get on this forum???

Just be true to yourself? That kind of advice kept me single for 17 years

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I'm new, learning the art of seduction from books. Hoping to attend workshops when they arrive in the midwest... Give me a heads up if one comes along...

lol

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Eww

dont change to the point theres nothing about you real, but modify yourself. If you talk to much, work on not talking so much, if your real stiff work on relaxing and so on.

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[God], Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things that I can, and wisdom to know the difference.