I agree 100% that you should always be honest with women, but there's being honest and there's being fucking rude. Anything which is genuinely rude, offensive, degrading or mysogynistic will get you negative reactions - and not the good kind. If she gives you shit for saying certain things, it isn't a shit test she's using to test your frame, it's cos she wants you the fuck out of her face.
Be up front, be honest, but for fuck sake use some common sense.
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Tell her she looks ugly with the shirt she's wearing.
This, for example, is subjective criticism and it's point blank gonna offend her. If you said "I don't really like that shirt, but hey, at least it's something you can change so I can live with it for now" it'd be a lot different. If you say something negative about her you want her to laugh about it, not to think you're a rude asshole.
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Tell her you only like her for her big breasts.
This is a mysogynistic statement. You can tell her you like her breasts, that's fine, but to say you
only like her for her breasts is a whole other kettle of fish.
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Tell her you want to stick your dick in her mouth.
You can say this sorta stuff under certain circumstances only. If you're not at the point where she knows you want sex and she's open to the idea of going home with you, or you've gone home with her and she asks what you wanna do, then and
only then will you get away with saying this stuff because she
expects and
wants you to. No girl expects a guy to just walk up and say he wants to put his dick in her mouth, and no girl wants to hear that either.
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Tell her you came up to feel her tits, or wanted a kiss. (they'll let you)
You can get away with the kiss thing, but not the tits thing. Later on after you've kissed her, you can tell her you like her breasts and wanna give them a good ol' grope... that gives you a great reason to isolate her and by god you'll have a good time once you get her alone. You should know she's not gonna just let you grope her in front of everyone the second you walk up to her - it's common sense.
You can take honesty too far, and if you're gonna be honest about certain things you need to be wary of how you word those little thoughts of yours.