there is this chick who i have been texting and speaking with for about 3 weeks, we met in a club and had a date about a week ago.

She is 20 and always really busy. On our date we had a meal etc and a bit of smoochie smooch.

she said she really enjoyed the evening and always replies to my messages. As she is very busy and so am i tis difficult to arrange another date, Anyway i feel she is loosing interest i dunno if my texts are too desperate or summin. And today was the first day she did not reply to any of my messages.

If i dont text her she normally messages me but i feel i do a lot more work, how can i switch it. or any other advice thanks.

OMG arrange another meeting quick or at least a phone call. TEXTS are not gona do anything for your game and she is slipping off. If she hasn't forgotten you already she soon will. On you're next meeting you need at least one venue change, two too be safe and then bed her. If she's too busy for a date during the day suggest one at an outlandish time like 1 AM coax her by saying "come on be spontanious", or the like, girls eat that shit up.

I have to agree completely. First, you said that she ignored your "Messages" plural, you possibly have already lost her BUT if your both just too busy during the day set up a time when you will be trolling a park late night or going to see a midnight showing of a new movie. Tell her that your headed out tomorrow night to the opening midnight showing of "blah" and she should come with.

This shows her a couple of different things. 1. You might be busy but your making time to go out and have fun. 2. Your setting the time and date of your meeting, HOPEfully you can regain frame.

If she replies with "I can't, I have work in the morning." You can always say that "I do too, but that doesn't stop me from being social and having a good time." OR "Oh, I thought you were the type of girl who was willing to do what it takes to have fun."

But in general Swing has it right on this one. Do something quick and even if you get stood up you can still see a movie.

THAT SOUNDS LIKE REALLY GOOD ADVICE I LIKE IT, dont get me wrong i have called her and we speak on the phone, and i know she is interested coz sometimes i dont text her and she will text me so its not like she is replying for the sake of it.

Anyway i will try the spontaneous thing and try and make myself look busy on a social front.

ill keep u posted as to whether it works.

1)get her on the phone
2) Mention something about what are you doing this weekend, yadi yadi (not an invite out)
3) say this
"If you were to feel incredibly turned on, do you think you might feel
compelled to act on it?" RJ

4) Wait for response Use the response to get her to feel more of the emotions she feels when she is incredible turned on.
5) hang up leave her in that state after talking to you
6) wait for invite out

the most unneeded seduction approach which is exactly what it sounds like you need. if you have already talked to her and dug a hole, MOVE ON.