is it better to use a nick name or your real name when or if it comes to someone lse knowing it?

it depends on the nickname etc, I am called Jason but people call me Jay and Jase lots. However, if you introduce yourself by your full name it gives them the opportunity to make you a nickname.

If you are talking about your PUA alias then I wouldn't bother it creates separation between you and the pickup version of you which is a bad idea, plus you would seem a tad strange telling people your name is Mystery or Gambler in a club.

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It can depend.

Some people create their Avatars based on their nicknames, others like to use their own name.

Personally I like to use my real name. I'm a girl so using a pseudonym is a big DLV.

A friend of mine came up with a great thing for this.
He uses this as an opener and it's great.

"Hey ladies, got a question. Is Scott a name that's inherently un-sexy? I have freiand and his name is Scott but he just changed his name to Saint and all of a sudden ladies love him. (Blah blah blah...) Oh, sorry, I forgot to introduce myself, my name is Saint."

He showed it to me and I just LOVED it.

It's up to you in the end but you need to be aware that if you are using a pseudonym that it will show and the girl will find out.

Personally, unless you're being a slimebag I see no reason to use a pseudonym. If you do it like Saint does, then it's cute, but if you attest that it is your name, then I have to wonder why you'd do that.

Cinnamon

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ok fair enough.... i mean i've have a variety of nick names in the past and i often wonder, if i were to introduce myself as that, which to use. if i give an outline of a few can u tell me what u think?

Black Dragon
The Jessta
Master Cambray (when i was younger that was my title... i'm not exactly a master of much)
Cambo

any reply's now would be great....

DO NOT go into the field and tell someone your name is Black Dragon or The Jessta, aside form the obvious spy film/comic throwback of them they are ridiculous and I think you may well be laughed right out of the set. Also my female housemate said she would probably laugh and hurt you lol.

Master Cambray again just no, cambo could be a maybe lol.

I would say if you really HAD to choose one then go for Cambo but what's wrong with your real name?

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i've had to live with my realname for ages and i guess there isn't anything wrong with it..... i just never liked it