Hey guys, I'm new to this site.

I have been out with quite a few girls but the approaches have nearly always been made in a bar or nightclub. The problem I have is that I have identified two women who I'd really like to approach. The problem lies in the fact that with the first one I only ever see her in the canteen at work, and she always sits surrounded by a number of other girls.......therefore making the approach difficult. The second girl is one I have recently spotted in the gym......this girl is HOT, but in an understated way. Again, the problem is the environment in which the approach may have to be made. Its hit and miss if she is in the gym at the same time as I be there, and how exactly do approach someone on a crosstrainer with their earphones in!

When I see these women, I feel like trying to make an approach, but when I don't I get really pissed with myself! If it was in a bar or club then I would have little hesitation of approaching and talking to them........but what the hell do you do in the canteen or gym!?!?

If you have read this far, thanks for staying interested! Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated.

Ok man...

Here goes.

You look at it the wrong way. If they already know your face you would not want to approach them using the indirect approach thing. It just seems strange. I assume you favour the MM and it is mainly used to make a first good impression (at least when you start out). Do not use it on girls who already know who you are. And you fix your attention on two specific specimens when there are more around.

If you still wanna approach... I would go situational. Or direct. Normally it is easier to run a larger set than a single girl. Do not let her friends scare you.
A direct approach shows that you got balls. A situational opener gets rid of the cheesyness of canned material. (Come on, you do not go up to the canteen girl and ask her if she saw the fight outside).

Practice on sets that do not matter first and get your game up to speed. THen get those two!

Ezo

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For the girl at the "canteen" in a large group.

This would be an easy approach for you. Enter the "set" and ask them if
they have change for a $20 or $5, or whatever. If they say they do, or
don't... when you notice their hands, fingernails, whatever... just bring up
a conversation like how their nails are un-even or how your little sister is
wanting to get her nails done, and how her/your mom will not take her to
get them done and she asked if you would pay and take her to get them
done, and that you would like to know a place that you can take her....

NOTE: If you do not have a little sister, ask a friend if you can borrow
their sister for this purpose. Explain it all to your friend and the little
sister so you don't seem like a weird friend.

Congrats, you have just opened the "set" of girls and are talking to all of
them. Now, make a little more conversation by asking how they all met
each other. This should be interesting if ANY OF THEM ARE INTERESTED
IN YOU. Be sure to watch how they look/stare at each other, if they keep
looking around at each other with a "what-the-hell" look on their faces,
then they are annoyed or bothered by you being there...

Also reads out as: No one here likes you, move it along, nothing to see.

But, if the one you are interested in, does in fact talk to you, and the others
also are talking to you, then you have been approved of, and are now
ready to start your little "flirting" moves that you have learned.

Ask the woman of you interest, (if she is comfortable enough) if she will
accompany you and your little sister to the nail salon that they all told you
about.

NOTE: Better tip... ask if any one of those girls would be willing to
accompany you and your little sister to the salon. Why any one of them,
you ask?

Simple.

If the girl that you are interested in DOES NOT OFFER, and another one of
the girls does offer to go with you... you now have the opportunity to
display higher value to one of her friends, thus, increasing your chances
of being "talked" about to the girl you REALLY do like.

Also,on a side note...

You could question the "friend" that has joined you about the girl you are
interested in. Therefore, the girls friend will tell the girl you like, that you
were asking questions about her, thus letting "said girl" know, that you are
interested in her. And the next time you see them all standing there, you
can walk up and just start chatting away at them.


For the girl at the gym.

If she has her eyephones on and is NOT looking around at all the other
guys in the room, then she is not there to find a love connection.

But, if she does in fact look around, then she is looking for a new love
interest and you need to find a way to chat her up.

TIP: Try walking in front of her and "accidentally" drop something in front
of her. She will look at you when you stand back up from picking it up.
Here you can now look at her, and just start moving your lips in the
appearance that you are talking to her.

NOTE: Just move your lips without actually saying anything, this way, she
will remove her eyephones, and see that you are in fact NOT SAYING
ANYTHING JUST MOVING YOUR LIPS.

When she removes her eyephones, just stick with moving your lips
WITHOUT anything coming out. After 2 seconds of her earphones being
off, you can just stop moving your lips, smile, and then say,
"Hi. I was just asking you what you were listening to..."

If she finds you attractive, she will tell you. Then you can ask if you can
listen to it a little bit too.

NOTE: Do not get your sweat on her ear piece. Listen from a distance.

After you chat her up for a few minutes, or until it looks like she is
getting bored with you... ask her if she would join you for a drink...
(make the drink something HEALTHY)... Why healthy? Well, you are in a
gym, are you not?

And after that drink/meeting of whatever. You can then proceed to the
step/strategy to get her to give you her number for a later meet up date.

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EZO and LEPRECHAUN, thank you for your substantial posts, its really really appreciated.

I might put the girl in the canteen on the back-burner for now (the one in the gym is probably ahead in the looks dept.).........but I do like the idea of opening a conversation by asking for change. They actually sit beside one of those damn vending machines in the canteen which swallows your money if you don't use correct change!

Leprechaun....that gym opening is awesome, and yet so simple, I'd never have thought that up in a lifetime! I'm def going to use that as my approach the next time I see her in the gym.......maybe drop my ipod or something in front of her.

Thanks again guys, I appreciate you putting in the time to write those posts.

SP

No problem bro. Good luck in all your endeavors.

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