I have a dance next month at school 10+9th grade
I need tips to hook up their so i can get my first kiss or get a date whatever comes first

well first of all you dont have to dance well. Just dance around like in a joking manner if your that bad. Have fun with your friends and people you know and meet more peeps. Oh and grinding isnt that hard.

I don't know anybody

Dances can be difficult, and intimidating, especially if you know NOBODY there. The way i see it, sarging at a dance is the same as sarging at a club. it's very fast paced, but if you can keep your cool, you'll be fine.

personally i dont actually use a routine, but if you're just starting you will probably want a template of what you're going to do. just open, throw a few negs, and have some stories on hand, but mostly, just be SOCIABLE. i guarantee that if you just act flamboyant, attention will come to you.

what i do personally, is i talk like i'm gay. i know it sounds silly, but it helps me get in the mood of being sociable and fun. try that out and see how it works.

also, you'll realize that kiss closing really isn't that hard. you just have to be chill, pretend like you dont give a shit, have fun, and wait for chicks to come to you.

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I don't analyze life, I just enjoy it.

Thats what i mean How do you not give a shit i don't have to worry about approaching some one it is the attraction phase i have trouble with and using a good neg or some thing

Not giving a shit is pretty simple, all you have to do is stop caring what others think. Completely. The best times i have ever had was when i just didn't care it gave me confidence and most importantly made me look wayyy more alpha than i truly was

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The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.

that i understand but what about the atraction phase and negging

What i want is if possible a sort of play by play that will obviously change but like a blueprint