I don't understand why I have these weird emotions. The thing is, I have fallen in love in the past and in times when I really loved the girl (you know that weird feeling), I never wanted to have sexual relationship with her. With other girls who I found attractive but didn't love - sure, go ahead. They were just fuckable meat in my eyes. But the girl I loved was not, I think I thought that it was something too dirty for such a beautiful creature as herself. That's really stupid but that's how I felt and I can't explain it because other guys would probably feel the opposite!!!

Now, I don't love anyone anymore, which is GOOD, because I don't have those gay feelings that make you weak but I can recall how the "love" feeling felt like and when I do, I have zero sexual wants towards this person.

What the fuck? Has anyone experienced the same? I know it's stupid and not right, but I would like to know what is the cause of this. Any psychology students here?

I think you've explained it well enough in your own post. You felt like sex was a dirty act, and thought the girls you really liked were too "good" to "inflict" it on.

Not that bad it happens to a good number of people some girls once you start a reltionship with you just not tht interested

i've had this feeling.. yet now i wouldn't qualify it as love, maybe passion. it's a fucked up feeling not only because it makes you look gay but it's made of nothing reasonable. i think when you are deeply in love with somebody you still want to fuck her, if you see somebody as some kind of angel coming out of the sky, it is not starting right imo.

Yeah, man. It is really weird. You don't have to show this on the outside, but deep inside you still feel that way. It's like when you have the love feeling, you almost feel the person is some special entity, it's fucked up, that's why I hate love.

I remember this feeling I actually did a ljbf with a good girl friend, she was in tears. I still feel like an ass, but guess what karma hit me and I got LJBF by her friend lol.