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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:31 pm 
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Value is literally the key to love and attraction.

Everything and everyone has value, some low and some high.

WE the pickup artists need high value to attract females to us.

We are ALL programmed to measure value.

We are ALL programmed to respond to high value males.

To create attraction from a female, we must demonstrate higher value.

A DHV is a demonstration of higher value.

DHV CATEGORIES.

Willingness to emote
Leader of men
Protector of loved ones
Pre selected by women
Travel a lot
Successful risk taker
Happy with life
Can handle everything she has to offer
Humor
Clever
Good with kids
Courage
Adventurous
Fun
Good memory
Independent
Rich
Strong frame
Emphasises and expresses feelings through words
Social understanding
Experienced
Good at sex
Tall (Being short can also play to your strengths, you cant change it so don’t worry)
Good with her friends
Not clingy
Having standards
On demand
Social proof
Honesty
Confidence
Well groomed
Connects with people
Smiles
Healthy
Passionate
Individuality
Not phased by anything
Provides
Consistent
Decisive
Down to earth
Trustworthy
Compassionate

Anything which is positive is a DHV.
Likewise anything negative is a DLV.

There are literally thousands of forms of DHV.

Some value is masked socially, for example a footballer. We are not biologically designed to respond to footballers, but we are biologically designed to respond to the value which they consist of.

50 cent. A prime example.
- Tribal leader, G Unit, and everyone says they love him.
- Pre selected by women. The girls go crazy for the guy as a result of his other DHV.
- Protector of loved ones. He won’t shut up about how he would die for his homies and how no one touches his family.
- Successful risk taker. The guy has been shot 9 times and does not even walk with a limp.
- in fact 50 cent gives so much DHV, just through his music videos, films and songs, that women all over say that they want to screw him so bad. I don’t actually have time to list every one of the attraction switches he hits and how.
- Just because he is not aware of the fact that he is actually DHV in pickup artist mentality, he is still a pickup artist.
- Because he is such high value, everyone loves his music, because of HIM. Most of it isn’t even to do with the lyrics. They want to associate with HIM.
- Rappers have far better lyrics than 50 cent. He is just one of the coolest in the eyes of society, so the girls love him for it. This is down to value.
- Drugs, guns, violence and swearing is a DLV. And he talks about his drugs and guns, swearing about them violently. So we hate him for it.

The thing is with DHV, you don’t have to lie. You don’t have to pretend that you have been all over the world, and that you spend loads of time with your family and dating girls.

DO IT. It is literally, your chance to be a better person. And girls will love you for it.

Ok, so how do I start using DHV? If I want to change?

Small things in what you say will change everything. Go from saying you have to pick up your niece as you promised your sister you would =(- to OH MY GOD! I get to see my niece soon, im going to pick her up after school to teach her how to spell Australia! I am planning to take her there sometime =).

No point in lying, when really you don’t want to spend time with her. Make yourself a better person. Go out with her, soon you will find yourself attached to her and enjoying her
company. Don’t do it to pick up a girl, do it for yourself and your family. Do it to pickup a life. The fact that it is honest also makes your story more congruent.

We can demonstrate higher value through stories.

The shorter the stories are, the earlier we can use them in the pickup.

For this reason it is important to convey your message and DHV, as strongly as possible in as few words as possible.

The actual content of the stories, doesn’t need to be amazingly impressive, it comes across as far too try hard.

Are you bragging? Bragging and DHV is different. For starters, bragging is a DLV. Insecurity try hard false etc.

The idea is to let her know your cool, without meaning to. (At least she wont know you mean to)

What a DHV story should have:

EMOTION.
Men tend to fixate their interpretation mostly by what you are saying by the content, as where the females will listen and feel the emotions used by you within the speech. If with your words you can sensate her through an emotional journey by using emphasis and feeling, this alone is a DHV, regardless of the content. Verbal DHV spoken with emphasis and feeling = DHV multiplied.
How do we express our emphasis and emotions???
- Paralanguage - consider volume, tone, speed, pitch and other aspects of speech.
- Illustrators
- Body language
- Acting it out - like a role play
- The denotations and connotations of the words that you are using. Be descriptive.

CONTENT
Is what you’re telling her and the group a DHV? It should be interesting, fun, and a girl related topic. Don’t know any girl related topics? I suggest heat. Avoid distasteful topics, death and sorrow etc.

OPENER
Yes your story needs to have an introduction. The opener should be congruent with the following story. E.g. Oh my god that reminds me! The most unbelievable thing happened to me the other day! - are you then going to talk about something ordinary???

HOOK
This should make surrounding ears stand up, grabbing their attention. Social proof, tribal leader. The hook should be as far at the start as possible. For instance if your hook is a dildo (a weird thing to try and hook someone with I know) then don’t say dildo at the end. It should grab their attention at the start, so they too will listen in.

Remember the hook is designed to catch people’s attention. So make it an outrageous hook, something out of the ordinary. OR it could be something which is relevant to people, a current affair or cause of concern within a culture.


BAIT
Your stories should have bits of unanswered information in which she may then hook you on and ask about, curious for further details. This keeps the conversation going, making her think that really you’re the talkative one, but your actually making her talk to you, without her realising it. This not only raises your value as she is showing interest and your talkative, but you are actually testing her, to see if she is interested. If she is not interested then she won’t ask... E.g. So we was in a cinema watching a film, and the girl who was actually with me then grabbed my hand and put it in her lap!
This leaves lots of unanswered questions. What cinema? What film? WHO WAS THE GIRL?
For this reason you should be descriptive, but not answer the main details within the story.

PUNCH LINE
The punch line just has to be at the end, or it’s not a punch line. It should outline the meaning of the story briefly. It does not have to be funny, even though the majority in field will be.


Remember a DHV is just that, a DHV. It does not have to be verbal, in fact, NV DHV is just as effective, if not more effective because there is no chance that you could be giving the wrong impression or lying, the group actually sees the demonstration, which is proof.
A DHV story is just a WAY of demonstrating.
- Making men around you follow your instructions
- Making people laugh
- Showing pictures of you DHV
- Getting a girl in your lap
- playing with your niece
The possibilities are literally endless.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 4:12 pm 
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Simply Awesome V1V :twisted: !

This has to be one of the absolute best posts on the forum describing what is a DHV and how to DHV. This information will give lots of people ideas for story building.

Thanks for taking the time to put this together and post this.

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Hmmm... What should I say... Wow!

This takes the old fuzzy cathegories and brings out what is actually in them. Its like, its great to be alpha... duh. Whoever does not get that, and whoever does get that. It could mean a thousand things and here my friend you have listed them! I like it!

It is also good to keep these things in mind when improvising. When you are in a set you know what to stress! Rep point for you man!

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Thanks for the love guys.

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interesting post

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nice post.

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Great
No question.
I would just add that memorising a lot of the list of higher values can be hard.

For that reason style talked about "Las Vegas"

it is almost like a summary of the list you said
Looks (well groomed, stylish avatar)
Adaptability (intelligence, accept different scenarios)
Strength (decisiveness. "no bitchass-ness", or "Can do" attitude

Value (having moral values, or confidence)
Emotional Connection (sensitive person, chemistry )
Goals (ambition)
Authenticity (congruency, strong frame, inner game)
Self-worth (confidence, not needy)


Great post, though helped me alot on how to display value

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