I made some approaches today
Since im just starting out this is a bi step for me so i'm hoping i'll continue since the program i'm on just said approach. one thing though, i noticed i'm still a little sacred to approach a women when guys are around for some reasons. And groups even those as small as two.

Any tips for overcoming these two they'll be put to some good use i can assure you so thanks in advance.

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I suggest trying to work on your inner game at the same time as you are working on your outer game. There is no easy answer for getting rid of fear, it takes time and work, but working on your inner game will do wonders. There are a lot of programs out there that you can watch, what they will do is expand your perceptions of women and dating and fix a lot of your limiting beliefs by showing you other points of view and ways of thinking. You might also want to sarge with friends who are better with women than you, because their attitudes and mindsets will rub off on you.

Go up to random dudes without girls with them that you might come across, and start talking to them. It's not as hard as it looks.

PROTIP: Most dudes are just as insecure as you once were, and would be mind-blown that someone thought they were cool enough to talk to.



My gender-neutral opener of the week: Have you ever seen a hippo make out with a giraffe?

Some good advice more wouldn't hurt tho.

I don't believe my inner game is tht weak i know i bunch of stuff about my self im secure about it, i guess im just afarid of their reaction and judgements if they see me just go up to a girl and talk to them.


And for the groups i guess i'm just afraid i can't keep all their attention on me and if u lose one friend u lose the group. Any more advice?

Also i think my inner game is decent it just would help with results.

It's impossible to keep an entire group entertained indefinately. You can't please everybody. However, the better you get, the more a group will pay attention to you as a whole.



Why are you worried about their reaction and judgements? Their reaction and judgements will be about your approach, not you. They can't possibly reject you, they know nothing of you. It's entirely possible to approach, get blown out, learn something new, approach again on a different day, and get an f-close.

your right this helped a bunch thanks man