Okay... Ive known this girl since high school ,but I didn't really talk to her much cause she was like Nerdy. She was also like bitchy and uptight about everything. Well I haven't seen her in a long time since this night and she was completely different. She looked gorgeous and stunning ,so i talked to her, had her laugh the whole time. But I was in hurry and i didn't number close her. So i tried talkign to her on facebook. And here how it goes.

PUa
Heyyy Is HB there. I need to ask her an important question?

11:08pm HB
this is HB....

11:09pm PUA
Heyy HB I am luring girls to my house with candy, Which one do you prefer, skittles or M&M's?

11:09pm HB
i like a bag of fuck you

11:09pm PUA
lol.
I'm just jokin with you. lol

11:10pm HB
what makes u ask that ne way

11:10pm HB
lol I thought it was funny. I'm just joking jeez. Are you mad!!?!?

11:10pm HB
and no girl would come for the candy and stay for the arlu if thats what ure thinking
ha im not mad

11:11pm PUA
lol. I'm just jokinggggg.! I usually get a laugh. But I get a lecture from you. Wow this is a first...
Are you really upset right now!?

11:12pm HB
no im not upset

11:12pm PUA
lol you know I was jokin right.

11:13pm HB
i kno u were joking
geez how many time i gotta tell ya? i was joking too

11:14pm PUA
lol. you snapped at me. Your a biter arent you!?

11:14pm HB
wow r u drunk? ...ooh i bet u r high

11:15pm PUA
Nooooo. first off i don't get high. second I haven't gotten drunk in like a month surprisingly...

11:15pm HB
ha just a month

11:15pm PUA
heyyyy thats a long time you know!!!

11:15pm HB
but news years was only 26 days ago...
i find that hard to believe

11:16pm PUA
well... i guess after new years... aright fineee! you got me. 25 days aright!!! I hope you feel better now.!

11:19pm HB
haha seee
so u ARE a liar.... damnit

11:19pm PUA
whatt!!!?! I didn't LIE!!!!
i miscalculated. Its two completely different things.

11:20pm HB
and i was hoping i was wrong about you.. oh well... and i woulda said skittles because i wanted you to be my pot o gold at the end of the rainbow...

11:21pm PUA
Lol Woah woah waoh there tiger. Are you always this forward?!?
Jeez I ain't tha easy.

11:24pm HB
ha but u admit u are easy

11:25pm PUA
noooo... Just cause I flirt alot doesn't mean I put out. lol hahaha. I need alot of trust and comfort in a relationship.

11:26pm HB
sure ya do.... and i dont need to kno bout ur problems

11:27pm PUA
lol. okayy what abou you? What are your best traits that separates you from other girls?

11:28pm HB
if you dont kno now then ull never know
i g2g bye

11:29pm PUA
lol. Let me find out then.

11:29pm HB
good night

11:30pm PUA
Ohhh. Just like that...

11:30pm HB
yup

11:30pm PUA
Hang out with me sometime. and let me find out.

11:31pm HB
not til hell freezes over, pigs fly, the fat lady sings, and a female becomes president all on the same day

11:33pm PUA
lol. Heyy whats the worst that could happen? Have a cup coffee with me this week.

Then she set up this status update... which was confusing.
11:33pm
Breathe out, so I could breathe you in...♥.

11:34pm HB
not worth my time
and what are u gunna do have me meet u at owrk
fun
and u arent asking ure telling me
so good bye



Then I just didn't say anything after that. I wanted to say something like. Your still the same person since high school blah blah blah. and try to unload on her. But like style said any problem has a solution. and you control the outcome of the scenario. If its negative its your fault... But I don't understand... I didn't do anything wrong. I think this bitch just has physcotic problems. Was it me? or its just her personality and how she was. I'm just gonna ditch this bitch ,but still I want to know how to game girls like her. Any tips? or solutions

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I'm not a player, I just fuck a lot.

after reading the first few lines of the conversation...here is my conclusion.

She tested...you failed, she put you into the category all the other AFC go into.
right here...now you are chasing her...she now knows this.

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

Ohh shit. I guess your right... What could I have said then??

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I'm not a player, I just fuck a lot.

You played right into her every step of the way.

You said, "I was joking!" wayyyy too much. Once would've been fine. In fact, when she said, "I'd like a bag of fuck you," you could've came back with, "Nope, sorry, all out of that tonight. I've got tons of rotten apple cores and stale bread though!"

When she asked if you were drunk/high, you should've hyperbolled, "Yeah I invited some strippers over, and we're doing cocaine off each other, shooting heroin and drinking Jack Daniels out of a beer funnel. You should totally come join us! Wait, no, I forgot that you're a goodie 2-shoes, nvm."

When she called you a liar about NYE being less than a month ago, you should've said, "Yup, you totally caught me. I better check into AA now."



See where I'm going with this? When they shit test you, say the complete opposite of what would normally come out of your mouth, and the more exaggerated it is, the better (generally).

I agree!

a shit test is like a stress test, they want to see how much you can take before you buckle and bend.

I would suggest if you dont already know what a "frame" is then look into it. If you do already know the logic behind a "frame" then i would suggest to work on it so your never out of frame.

I had a girl i met online, i was throwing out the cocky funny comments, all was well in the conversation...then she said something to the effect of "Im getting off now, i wont be back on for another three months after this conversation."

she wanted me to buckle, but i said "ok, enjoy those three months" she let me know that she was "just kidding" which i knew but i could have gave in and said i was joking with some of my negs or jokes, but then she would lose respect for me. I stayed in frame and she came back to me knowing i was not going to buckle.

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

Yeahhh Totally right. Whoever controls the frame controls the other person. Perfect. I'll definetely keep that in mind. Thanks alot guys...

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I'm not a player, I just fuck a lot.