wat does it mean when she says she dosnt want a boyfriend now she just wants to go with the flow and take it slow....but she says tehre can be something in the future....and that i can like see other girls and that she would like to go on a second date

Hello man, I think she doesent want to go in a relationship, thats all. She probably is having fun and seeing other guys too, and she is kind of telling you that you can do the same. Watch out with tese type of girls, because she is probably sucking your money out. My advice: Dont date her. See if she is really interested in you, and not in your money/other guy. Dont call her for a period and see what happens. If you are really interested in this girl, then you might want to follow my advice. If you just want to have sex, then date her and fuck her, but expect her to do the same with other guys.

thanks for the advice man but im pretty sure she is not seeing any other guys tahts the thing....like when we went out on the first date she wasnt the type to make me pay for anything she kept on insisting to pay for things you know? but yeah ill be careful and see wat happens but she did say there could be something in the future so i guess thats a good thing?

how about you bitch slap yourself for me first ...

seriously real quick just bitch slap yourself

did you do it? good

now you say this girl doesnt want a boyfriend right now its bullshit......what it means is??

im not that attracted to you as of YET!!!, I'm not that attracted to you to the point to make you my boyfriend!!!!....but we will wait and SEE if my attraction for you gets that far......

ive ran into this billions of times......not to me of course, cause i wasnt trying ot pick them up (hence friends) but anyways when im talking to these girls somewhere along the line in our conversatoin they tend to throw out yeah! im not looking for a boyfriend right now, i like the single life blah blah blah...and 2 weeks later i talk to them again and they happen to say guess what i have a boyfriend!!..

of course i already konw why but i ask, i thought you didnt want one but she usually says something like well right away we just clicked and i really like him and it just happened...


now if things dont work out with you and this girl, im sure you'll see her in the near future with a boyfriend if she meets the right guy..

but do youself a favor after she establishes you guys just friens if she does that is i hope not, i hope ya get her...but if she speaks those stomach turning words.....

then do yourself a favor and reasure yourself what i say is true and ask her...the following..

you werent that attracted to me to want to date were you?.....


and i bet she will say yeah! sorry


o yeah and then report back on whether i was right or not...

of course im gonna be wrong if you end up attracting her...

but if the LJBF line is spoken then stat to her that she wasnt attracted to you enough to date you and

let me know what she says

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haha makes sence man...but idk i feel like she is attracted to me cuz like ill ignore her for a while and shell text me or initiate a convo wid me u know? and today i was picking her up from her house for our mid term(were still in highschool) and i was picking up my friend also cuz they live in the same neighborhood and she like tapped my arm, and then was like nvm before my friend got into the car and later shes like i wanted to kiss you tahts y i tapped ur arm so idk she gives ioi's but idk

well like i said before she likes you but its probably not enough to date in her mind and she is gonna wait and see how things go to see if that attraction builds in the future to that point...

she may not consciously know this but somewhere in the back of her mind she likes like but just doesnt feel like that gut level attractoin in order to date



what i would do is freeze her out and kind of spend less time toghther and talk less to make her miss you.....the thing is is when you hang out it has to be a great time so she will miss you..


but thats what i would do.....DO NOT TAKE THAT ADVICE to heart...cause we need to all succed or mess up in our own way and i dont want to feel like if you only didnt listen you may of had her..


but it seems you already freeze it out when you say....I ignore her and thats very good.....

im thinking your on the edge of friends and boyfriend so you gotta be careful but dude dont be to careful cause if your conservative and a pussy about things you'll lose her anywywyas



think about it.....when you freeze her out and ignore her the next time you talk......doesnt she happen to be more talkive perhaps contacts you or when she see's you is more touchy feely???


i bet she is........


im only saying its POSSIBLE her attraction for you isnt quite there yet in the back of her head to date, but she'd like to but it just isnt there....



let me know how it go's

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almost forgot she wanted to kiss you?....alright..

how bout you kiss her instead?

give her a trust test, scale 1 to 10 how good a kisser are you?

are you a spontaneous person?

you wanna kiss me?


or kiss her in whatever way you feel she would like and not find weird............


im not recommedning you do this 100% its all up to you

but think about it if she wanted to kiss you.....it should be alright for you to kiss her...



and im thinking thats a good way of gauging her interest if she accepts the kiss from you.....she likes you more towards the boyfriend side of things...


and if she denys the kiss or turns her lips so you kiss her cheek then i think we both know its more for the friends side of things....


once again let me know how it go;s



but at some point in time yoru gonna have to man up, and risk losing her cause if you just sit back and try to play this one UNTIL SHE IS READY....i think you'll find out she WILL NEVER BE.....

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i must say savior...u are giving me great advice lol thanks for it man and about the kissing stuff, everytime weve kissed(the last 2 times we saw each other) ive gone in like i was the agresser so to speak...and everytime she wouldnt hesitate or turn away or anything like before i would lean in she would give me a look like "come here and kiss me" so yeah im guessing thats a good sign, and just yesterday after i dropped her off and we kissed and wat not...i ignored her the whole day untill she finally texted me so i guess im takin steps in the right direction?

sounds like it so far.....lets hope it works out for you

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yeah thanks alot savior ill keep u updated

She doesn't see you seriously as a man, she doesn’t really care, and your not a big deal. She will date you whatever, she will date other men too!

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THAT'S MY LINE! "I'm not actively looking for an exclusive relationship at the moment," to be more precise.

WTF!? WHY!?

I just got out of a very long relationship, and what it boiled down to was we were both settling for what we could get and we ended up not being compatable. Since then, I've been recovering from the breakup - it was hard on both of us, but we're both better for it. I'm dating around, hoping to find someone who can really move me emotionally.

None of the people I've been dating these past few months have done that for me YET, but it's not to say they won't. You just can't know someone well enough in a few months' time.



I will tell this to women too. IMO, it says that I'm selective for a very good reason, and that there's competition on the field besides them.

She doesn't see you seriously as a man, she doesn’t really care, and your not a big deal. She will date you whatever, she will date other men too!
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wat u mean by that?

Means your not hot shit! I don't know how you gamed this girl but she dosn't seem to care one way or another!

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damn man ive only seen two of ur posts and ur already comming off as an ***hole