So last night I'm at a bar a very nicely put together female opens me. We got chatting and I had her laughing while we were both waiting to be served our drinks, she said at one point "Can I get served before you, either that or you can buy me a shot" I just laughed and said "Ok i'll buy you a shot if you can beat me in a thumb war" so there we have the kino established, I also teased her saying she was cheating etc, it was going pretty well.
Anyway sure enough, eventually the enevitable question arises "So, how old are you?" I responded "Guess?" she said something like 23, I said "No i'm 19". She seemed taken back, I ask her how old she was and she said 32. Now this chick didn't look a day over 25 in my opinion, but she maintained she was 32. Immediately after this her attention is completely gone, she turns and starts talking to her friend, then some random guy, and now she has her back to me so I'm thinking "ok, just exit graciously" I say I have to get back to my friends and left.

I know it was definately the age thing that threw her off, so I'm just wondering how one would avoid similar problems in future?
What I thought I could do is when the age question comes up in the future, just to say quite literally what my opinion of it is and respond with this "I tell you what, how about we leave ages out of it, in my opinion finding out a persons age when you've only just met them can cause you to think differently about them than if you just get to know each other first" or something like that, I know I'm basically avoiding the question but I can't think of another way really. This has happened a couple of times, I've tried the "is age a problem or something?" when I can see they are a little weirded out that I'm younger and it hasn't worked.

Any advice would be great guys.

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I highly suggest not jumping through her hoops. If she asks you how old you are, reverse the situation so shes the one jumping through the hoop. Say something like, "the question is not how old i am, the question is are you young and fun enough to hang out with me?"

Make sure you are never on the defensive. You have to be the man, leading her. Remember, girls are more attracted to you if you play the part of the owner getting the dog to do the trick, instead of the dog, doing tricks for the owner.(the girl)

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saaame problem exactly. Being young (18) and going out, sometimes there's quite literally no-one near your age range. This happened to me before once with a 25 year old (who in all honestly barely looked old enough to get into the place) and it killed the vibe, and on the same night, me and my mate were doing really well sarging this girl (also 25), but as soon as she found out, she literally couldn't get away fast enough.
i always try flip a question back on them but at the end of the day, im not going to lie about my age, so i guess I'm in the same boat as you. All i can really do is empathize...haha

Youre right you shouldnt lie about your age. What you should do is not answer her question. Change the subject, but do it unsuspectingly.

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I have this problem somtimes. I Usually make them guess and depending on what they guess and how i think theyll take it i decide wheather to answer or not. I dont lie but say a girl will be like 'i think your 27' or somthing. Im actually 21 but ill be like no way your way off im actually 38 with a big smirk so its obvious im kidding. Then you haver to make suere to just change the subject so that way your still a big mystery.

I've just thought of a way to do this to keep an aura of mysteriousness around. Get her to guess your age, but add a little something like this.
"How old are you?"
"Guess, if you get it right I'll tell you you got it right, get it wrong and I'll only tell you if it's higher or lower."
That way you aren't neccersarily avoiding the question (as far as I can tell) you keep the mystery going, and you aren't lying about your age. I'm only 19 but have had girls say they think I am 23/24 so I reckon this could be handy. I'll try it out next time I get the chance and post the results.

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I had just turned 20 when I married my ex wife, who was 28 at the time. Needless to say that shit didnt last but a few years. My ex-girlfriend was 32. I have a date with a 34yo on thurs and again, I am only 23. When I was 19 and in Japan my Japanese girlfriend was 32 as well.

I now have the attitude that woman of that age

a) want the young cock
b) want to feel young again
C) just want to have fun

So if you can somehow communicate that you are fun, will make them feel younger, and have young blood pumping through your veins thats a start.

I also believe you have to be able to communicate with them on an intellectual level. You have to prove to them that you are different then guys your age and more mature. Act it, dont go qualifying yourself or proving yourself to them. Get them to qualify to you that they are hip and not old, dull, and fucking boring.

Most woman of that age have kids by then, been screwed over by countless men, and carry a lot of baggage.

As for a line to throw at them I always say that if you were 5 years younger and I was 5years older, we'd be the same age. LOL. Give high five. Continue Game. Or "oh god I cant talk to you no more!"

If you can nail a girl like that your in for a treat. They are in their prime and your the young stud that can keep up with them sexually.

Good luck

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