Ok guys I have know this girl for two years now and we have stated for ree mouths but just yester day she calls me and tells me that we should just be friends.I think there is another guy because she was fine till she met this guy.On her myapace that her heart is broken and does not know why he his to leave and I thought it was about me but she says no its cause Casey is going to Iraq and his my space says that That ever min with her that he loves but has to go to iraq and they both tell me that nothing is going on.What should I do?She says that we are not done that we should just be friends and work on being friends and then maydate agian.I dont how much more I can take of this I have a broken hand already from this and my nerves are shot I cant eat I cant sleep.my life is pretty much hell right now.

hey buddy, best thing that u can do is to try your best and GFTOW !!!

Pull yourself together and call her in a day or 2 and apologize, if you've acted a fool around her over this make it short though.Make sure you don't let her know that you want her that much. If you need to get any of your stuff from her or visa versa wait a few days or a week maybe and when you see her make sure you look like a pimp (new clothes shoes hair maybe if needed ) and act like your having a great time without her.

This might also help if you could have a chick friend blow up your cell phone.If you decide to try out my plan but all this stuff must be calibrated.

Another thing if she acted like a bitch to you then tell her don't reward bad behavior.Don't answer her calls if she happens to call you in the next few days.

Be alpha not AFC

Bump

guys what should i do

The best advice is to forget about her.

I know you really like her, but its not worth it to put this much energy and thought into someone that did that to you.

Id just try not to think about her much, or like someone else on here said pretend shes dead. It helped me.

Hope that helped some, Good Luck

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Getting the Hang of things

there are soo many other girls out there.... who cares about just one.. i know you will think about it in your head that you really want her but once you meet some other ladies you will forget alllll about her!!

GFTOW = Go F*ck Ten Other Women, for the record (if it hasn't been said already)

She's not that special. She's just like every other chick, who chases after the unattainable. If you want her, you have to allude that you don't want her.

damn, of course you hate your life, look how did this girl explicity puts you into submission and and no self-respectiveness

fuck dude, grow some balls, this girl clearly does-not-give-a-SHIT about your feelings, fucking kick her in the ass already

who the hell she think she is? "well lets be friends, maybe someday I feel pitty of you and then I may enlighten you with a chance of going on a date with me"

judging from what I read she's probably one more cute girl with nothing on her mind that thinks she's too much because low value people can't see through her beauty

also, why would you want anything with this girl? even if she came up she would just want you as her dog for her to treat you anyway she wants while you wouldnt be able to fart without her permission, all this while no other Casey appear, of course

grow up, be a MAN

MY advice runs pretty much like the others who have commented here and I would confirm that.

You have choices

1: listen to these posts and realize the truth that she is doing a mind f*ck on you and it will only lead to you really resenting her and yourself for letting it happen.
2: ignore the advice and remain in your pit until she says "hi" and ya get let out until shes fed up with you or her next love comes back/along.
3: Realize YOU for yourself you are surrounded by a BIG WORLD of oppotunaties and wonders just waiting to be explored.

I wish I had listened, cos the one I married did that to me and I am still paying the piper 16 years later.. << words of warning dont wait till you wake up still feeling sh*t before you get out while ya still can.
J1f

learn how to type and spell would be my suggestion.

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Thanks guys for the help and tips.