I've seen certain posts here and there abour certain problems with picking girls up. I've never seen one that summed up all the problems that girls can bring and will if you let them.

Babies... In my past I've gotten two girls pregnant. One miscarried at 4 months and it was by far the toughest thing to go through with a girl. The second already had a child with another guy and didnt want a second. I'm pro choice and I took her to an abortion clinic. I felt even worse then when my ex miscarried because I actually had a choice.

Condoms are by far the best thing to use to prevent babies. Keep them every where so they are available when you need them. Condoms can and will break, but this is a chance you need to know when having sex. Reduce the chance of a condom breaking by keeping up to date condoms. Some girls get dry, so keep some sort of lube where you sleep with girls the most. Check out WebMD for more info http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/ ... 9#hw138688

Birth control through hormonal methods, which include: Pills, shots, patches, IED's, implants and rings. Both girls I got pregnant were on the pill. The one was prescribed antibiotic meds which messed with the pill. The other one wasnt taking the pill every day, only when she remembered. Remember that girls do lie and there is a chance that you can get a girl prego, even if she's on birth control. WebMD link for more info http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/ ... ing#te7769

Drugs... I've never dated or had a girlfriend that used drugs on a regular basis for quite a few reasons. Girls can and will put drugs before you. Its costly to keep their addiction. They might steal from you when you dont support their addiction. Depending on what they take, they can be depressive and drag you down. I've tried them out of curiosity and fortunatly the only things that I'm addicted to is 1)chapstick 2)sunflower seeds. When your mind is warped you tend to do stupid things.
Examples; Sleep with a girl from the bar that you've seen go home with hundreds of guys before.
Not use protection and end up with something like a baby or STD.
End up with an expensive addiction.
I'm a hypocrite by saying this, but dont do drugs. Take it from a guy who knows. Life is complicated enough.

Alcohol... I fell into a bottle and it took almost a year to drag myself out of it. Its legal to get drunk, so its easier to do than drugs, but has the same problems as drugs. We've all heard the saying "Alcohol, helping ugly people get laid for over 100yrs". Its the sad truth that alcohol affects your judgement. Waking up to a "coyote ugly" hoping you used a condom has never made me feel any better. If you go out with the intentions of drinking please have a DD(dedicated driver, not dedicated drunk) or a way to get home that doesnt involve u driving.

Money problems. With an economy like the one we have, its more common than normal. Babies are expensive. Cant say this from a first hand experience, but I do know lots of people with them. Time is money and babies need alot of your time, think about it. STD's can literally kill you. Isnt your life worth than all the money in the world? DUH, wrap it before you tap it. $80 for coke here, $25 for X, $120 for dank shit... it adds up fast and in the end it doesnt help you. $250 bar tabs add up even quicker. A DUI from drugs or alchohol cost ON AVERAGE, over $6000. If you have a problem, get help!

Have a good time, live life to the fullest. Remember that every action that you do has some form of reaction.

Anything to add? Please feel free.

I too must recommend condoms! CONDOMS fucking condoms! I got a girl pregnant not too long about, if she hadn't miscarried, I'd be a dad this March. While babies can be a blessing, they can also alter your life drastically. Seriously, I am still somewhat twisted about it.

One problem not mentioned specifically altho all lead up to it (very solid post btw) is one's self-esteem. Girls will fuck with your psyche if you dont have a grasp on your own sense of reality. Do girls anger you? Intimidate you? Stifle you? WHY? Remember, if youre not steering this boat, who the fuck is?? Know where you are weak. Know how to improve.

"WHY?" can be a very tricky question but only you can can figure it out. Pinpoint your fragility, examine your feebleness, conquer your deficiencies then route your winnings and claim what is worthy. In a word, grow.

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Babies, the 18 year long STD.

The drugs and alcohol are just as bad as the STD's. I can tell you from experience, if you can go out with out them, do. I have had several one night stands that do and don't involve alcohol.

The one that stands out the most is the time I slept with this woman on our first date. We both got high, and completely trashed. She was a champ and drove. We picked up her daughter at 230 in the am... Got back to her place, she put her daughter in bed. Her and I go back to her bedroom and fucked the night away. I woke up at 830 am, buck nekkid, with her daughter staring me directly in the face wondering who the hell I was. The mom treated it like it was normal for her daughter to meet the strange men she brings home. To me, that is just teaching her daughter it is OK to be whore.... Fucking insane.

If it had just been a regular date, and didnt involve all the drugs and alcohol, things would have been completely different...

CK

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Totally agree. The whole reason I put this up is because I have four younger brothers that whether I like it or not, look up to me. They all have girl friends and I really dont want to see them fall into the same holes I did. They remind me of ME back in my AFC days... yikes! Gonna have to give a big brother speech to them, 1 on 1.

Getting burnt is the best way to learn, but its not the only way. Knowledge is power, learn all you can from who you can.

Thanks to you both for sharing!