So I was at this restaurant with a couple of friends and my female friend asked "if we were to die today, what would out last meal be?"

and while discussing this, the HB9 comes up and askes how we're doing. So I reply by asking HER what she would eat for her last meal.

She says "Dessert", I say "typical girl answer "

She asked what I would and I honestly couldn't think of an answer.

Anyways she came back and asked again if I thought of one yet. And she spilt a drink right behind me and such. I talked to her a bit during that part but because I suck ass I didn't go anywhere with it really.

I kept saying to myself that I would do SOMETHING...but she went off work and I was and ><.


ANYWAYS. On to the online part.

I was browsing facebook and clicking around and WITH THE LUCK OF THE WORLD I came upon a profile of some girl who commented on a picture OF THE WAITRESS. All the planets must have aligned.

Anyways, I wasn't sure if that was her or not but after clicking around and seeing more pictures I knew for sure it was. The problem is I can't view her profile because it's set on private but I can still message her.

Now, if I were to message her...what the hell can I say!?! It would be stalkerish don't you think?

We don't have any mutual friends so I can't use that as an excuse.

Anyone got any ideas?

Networking sites are interesting places because of this very occurrence...

I have myself, been in the situation like this before, where i have ran into people i have just met, or had spoken to that worked someplace i have been too.

Personally i would open back up on the dessert topic...i doubt she had been asked that question many times, and it would have stuck in her mind...Its hard to think she would forget you, if you brought that back up.

However she may ignore you if she is not attracted to you, but what is there to lose?

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

sorry i forgot to mention she never gave me her name which would make it quite stalkerish that i was still able to find her on facebook.

Think about what you just said? how is it possible to stalk someone when you know nothing about them? Its very hard to look someone up with no information about them, therefore it would have to be a random occurrence.

and again, what would you have to lose by sending a message? Use the dessert answer in the message, and make it sound as you would if it was a chance meeting.

Since im playfully sarcastic by nature this is an example of how i would go about it...

"HAHA! the funniest thing happened to me the other day that completely reminded me of you! I asked someone "if we were to die today, what would out last meal be?" She told me "dessert" now i wonder if you like dessert as much as she did?"

This would work for me...not saying it would work for you.

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

You can message her... just don't be like "hey remember me i'm that guy you served"

lol. That would just sound needy and weird.

^ so you agree with divinechaos that i should go direct and mention that i remember her

neither of us are saying to come out and actually say you remember her...

she may have forgotten you, but i doubt she forgot the question you had asked her or the answer she gave.

remind her of the question, but not in a direct way...you have to come up with something that is cocky and funny that peaks her intrest again.

I demonstrated in my earlier post how i would do it, but because im naturally sarcastic i would have been sarcastic while speaking to her in person, so what i had said was sarcastic and ironic which would make her laugh.

dont come out and say...hey i know you!

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

Not necessarily...

If you think there's a chance she might recognize you... then message her and say like "Um... who is this?"

She'll respond back sounding confused, like who are you?

That's where you just be honest and say... "Facebook says I'm supposed to know you, haha. Why do you look familiar? You're not like, a greeter at wal-mart are you?."

Go from there. Get her to recognize you first if you can. Usually after you say that line she'll either recognize you if she cares, or she'll say no no... i'm a waitress at blank blank... Then you can be like, oooooohh... I was there with my friends the other day, etc etc...

What about something along the lines of "aren't you that girl who likes desserts and spilling drinks?"

kind of a neg in there since she spilled her drink on the floor behind me that night.

I'm not cocky or anything but I think she would remember me for 2 reasons.

1) the way she kept looking at me made me think she was interested

2)coincidentally, my profile pic was taken on that same day, before I went to the restaurant