So true. When you 1st learnt game, it was all well and good to concentrate on Outer Game. But spend a little time infield and you'll soon hit a plateau. Outer game alone will get you some success but only to a degree. At this point you realize that inner game is important and must be cultivated together with outer game. It's important to truly internalize your own worth as a person and conclude that you are great and that your presence will improve the quality of a woman's life. IMO.
Yes! But like you said, only if used right. When I first discovered the power of social proof, I ended up blowing it with a girl that I # closed because I thought that social proof was enough and it was ok to get a little sloppy with my game. Now I know better.
Yep, never be a people pleaser. People respect you when you have respect for yourself and your tastes. This contributes to confidence.

When your game is tight a girl's attraction to you has very little to do with your natural looks.

I asked an HB9 friend of mine what on earth she saw in her boyfriend, who is not exactly the handsomest of the lot. She said, "At first I wasn't at all physically attracted to him, but he won me over with his personality." Wow!

Long story short: He's a loser. Treats her bad. So I did what any respectable rAFC with any measurable amount of game would do. I ran some BF destroyers, she dumped him, now she's mine

The game is good to me.

haha i found this really funny lol

Get the girl to visualize her future, and include yourself in it.

"What if you and me ...."
"5 years from now imagine .... and i ...... and you ....."

Do it in a playful manner. She'll eat it up. It is powerful!

Successfully passing a Shit Test will help you not only with the HB that threw it at you but with everyone that witnessed the challenge and your alpha male response.

I was working a 3-set the other day. Day game in a book store. One of the girls (the not so attractive mother hen) was responsive to me but still in a bit of a pissy mood. I was softening her up and the 2 HBs she was with were loving me, but she was sorta weighing the set down.

At 1 point she said something negative and I said "Awww, you look like you need a hug," and I turned slightly toward her. Arms down, no indication of a hug other than my body moved *slightly* toward her (maybe an inch or so), I did it hoping she would register it almost unconsciously. She looked at me and said "No...I don't." I said with a big grin "I didn't say you'd get one from me, I just said you look like you need one," and pulled my body back. She laughed and the 2 HBs laughed, number closed the HB9. Ha!

When texting, text like an old friend/lover by phrasing things as statements instead of questions. Remember that you're qualifying, not interviewing.

This applies to talking face-to-face and over the phone two, but is most obvious in text.

If you don't get this right, you're going to sound needy. For example, instead of saying it's better to say: You see, a boyfriend will say something emphatically to his girl and obviously expect a response. She'd respond with "I know! blah blah blah."

But a needy person that you don't really know will feel that he needs to ask an explicit question or else you won't respond. Think about those annoying people in your life that just won't go away even when you ignore them. How do they talk to you? Like you're being interviewed right? Now think about those people that you enjoy hanging out with? How do they talk to you? They say something, sure of the fact that it is interesting, and naturally expect a response.

Cut dow on those question marks and use "alpha" statements.

Like everything I post in this thread, I've tested this concept infield and it definitely works.

I know I'm stealing this from somewhere because I distinctly remember reading it, I'm just not sure where.

*make sure u last long enough*

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gee thanks. insightful.