im seeing one of my MLTR for about 6 weeks but just meet up with her every once a week or 10 days. she is virgin. i wanna F close her but she has fear of escalation, although she wants it. should i just arouse her til crazy and then just f her? if there is LMR its not because of my comfort its because of her inner issues and stuff. she is kinda scared i think. PLEASE ADVICE

i think you gotta ask her to be your gf. then when you f-close drop her. worked for me when i was young. she doesnt wanna come off as a hoe or lose it to someone that isnt "special." so unless you wear a helmet out try for a gf/bf deal. works 90% of the time.

ps dont forget to lay a rag or towel underneath to catch the blood hahaha

Why are you trying to have sex with virgins when you have multiple girlfriends?

What is wrong with you? You shouldn't try to take a girl's virginity just because you're horny, especially when you have other girls around.

That's called being selfish.

guru0z, PUAs are the exception to the rules. Also, he never stated that he just wants to f-close her and not take it any further, did he?

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Ok......I have a saying for you "never the 1st and never the last"......think about that....2nd off you need to build the comfort and trust with her....ensure her that you will not leave her and stuff....also keep in mind that this is something special for her.....she may be come attached to you if you f-close....so think about it....but talk to her about sex....but don't bring it up like that....wait for a sexual situation then make a refernece to it....then sooo wait u can't relate...then talk about it....comfort, trust, and time its all you have....but remeber like I said she may become attached

Ok, so I've F-Closed 3 virgins in my life, one of which was a monogomous relationship. the key is here is to have mad comfort and connection. If she has a fear of isolation what is it specifically? what you should be doing is spending intimate time with her, not necessarily trying for an F-Close but just intimacy, lots of EC and snuggling kissing and stuff, demonstrate you have more than physicality going on. After a few times of that, then move into kino escalation. Just remember, freeze outs. and demonstrating you'll still be around.
Don't lead her on.

Go 4 it mate some girls are virgins simply because they havent met the right guy. If you get enough comfort with her and build kino you have a good chance. Some girls who are virgins may want you to go out with them 1st though.

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That's just being selfish. Obviously OP is a busy guy.

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