I've had this with a few girls, its so annoying I need to know how to get past it

Just before sex they sometimes ask for stupid favours, its the most annoying time, why do they do this? and if I do it then they dont have sex, If I dont do it they keep asking and sex doesn't happen.

some include:-

I'm cold can you close the window?
I'm hot can you open the window?
did you close the living room door properly can you go and check?
can you go downstairs and get some ice cram for me?
make sure the covers are straight
take this empty glass to the kitchen for me
the tvs too loud can you find the remote control?
make sure the front door is locked
can you get my bag from the car as I dont want it to be broken into
can you let the dog out he hasnt been out today.

Whats the situation? Are you making out and she stops you and asks you to do this or are you just sitting there watching tv or are you both naked/condom on?

I'd say with the first and last one she is trying to see how much control she has over you. If you jump through her hoop she thinks your an AFC if you dont she thinks your an ass.

For things like- can you walk my dog or get my purse? I would say "No, but ill go with you to get your purse or walk your dog" That way you can do it together and try to buld some more comfort/sexual tension.

TV- Just go to the TV and lower the volume. If she is persistant about finding the remote than she doesnt want things to progress and you didnt build enough comfort.

(Or she might just be nervous about having sex with someone she doesnt really know and you didnt build enough comfort and this is an easy way for her to stop the situation)

its basically were into bed near the end of the night, is it cus ive left it till the last thing? its happened before whenever its just before we go to sleep,

oh *** 4got shes waiting outside in her car ill finish this message later lmao

i would use these comments in my advantage! can you open the window im hot > baby what i am going to do to you, the whole neighbourhood will hear you,

can you close the window i m cold> Hmmm then i just have to make you hot,

can you turn down the volume of the TV > leave it on, so we can make more noise

can you walk my dog? > no but i like it doggiestyle

all in other words: Cutt the crap bitch, i want sex NOW


things like that! i think these things have to come over natural, in any case, if she knows you and your are alpha, she wouldnt ask that shit! I am alpha, I want sex right now!!! And i take what i want and asking for those stupid shit is useless and she should know that! Now i am writing about it i think, you re not displaying enough alpha overweight over her! she senses this and is not overwelmed in a sex state! thats why she is not really in the mood and wants to take control again, by letting you jump trough hoops!


i m a newbie here though, so PUA 'st am i on the right direction here in my developement as a PUA or am i talking nonsense????/

haha and about that glass, i would just take that glass, and ask this glass? woman: yes and then trow it on the floor and then fuck the living daylights out of that woman!

are these tactics right, or am i to needy????

No man. You are exactly right. This goes for everything, not just sex. Try and focus her attention from whatever it is she is worried about, onto you, this way you can stay in control and get what you want.

"its basically were into bed near the end of the night"

Is this the first time you have stayed over?

Have you had any other physical relationship?

Sounds like you are leaving it a little late. Although... if she's really into you that won't stop her!

patania82 you are hilarious, if you are a newbie your gonna be good at this, you are exactly right

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yes i know, in a way i am a natural, but my problem is i also fall in love, and that fuckes things up for me! but now i ve had enough of that shit and want to become more pua ! damn woman, no matter how good you treat them, in the end they are all egoist if you ask me! Now i am starting to study PUA, but now the problem is, i am thinking to much! sometimes i just dont know what to do, because i want to do it right! when you start out studying pua, is this normal? that you are going to hasitate if you re doin it right? Ands hasitation is killer!!!! Also i think its hard to UNlearn certain ways, iso learning PUA ,another bIGG problem of mine is i cant go out clubbing for certain reasons. Lot of my game is via computer, so that is fucked!!! because of this reason i also have lack on social proof! its fucked

If she does this shit to you then you must not lower your value and become a wuss... If she asks you to close the window just simply say no... She is testing you and is waiting to see if you're up to her standards... Trust me if she asks you to do something for her and you do it this will make her feel less attracted to you and you'll probably not even have sex... and if you do it will probably be the last time with that girl... Just act like you dont need it... so if again... she says for you to do her a favor say no then if she says then if she says if you dont then were not having sex say fine... then leave... If you have this attitude then it will either end in both ways... 1) She will apologize and ask you to come back and **** her or 2) She will text or call you the next day apologizing for last nigt. Ive done this more than once and it works all the time. It conveys high status and that you dont care what she thinks.. Think "Alpha male". Hope this helped you out