This week I have 2 non-dates with a girl with a girlfriend who said she is somewhat into me, and knows I am somewhat into her.
She also rated it, haha, on a scale out of 10, at an 8.

She is 22, I am 23.

Wondering what all the signs of Body language are again? (And other ways to see it's working, escalation, etc) I remember laughter, and playing with the hair.


If I could be so greedy, I would also like to see good methods for kino.
I'm sure I can break her down easily, at least on date, er.. non date 2.
ND #1 = Coffee, then maybe a movie at her house.
ND #2 = Drinks (at a bar, dancing would be great kino but she is stand-off-ish about that as she has a BF)

Thanks guys, I had a longin awhile ago, but i have forgotten it.
so it's good to be back!

...what?
Uhg... there are a lot. I say just trust your subconscious and expect the best. If you are unsure, then it is probably going as well as your best hopes. I don't look directly for 'IOI's, but I trust they are there when a woman is enjoying my company. I do most of my calibration through how comfortable she is with me touching her. You could consciously pick on subconscious cues like tossing her hair, touching her hair, scratching her wrists, blushing, eye contact, smiling, shoulder position, degree of her 'openness', or a variety of other body language if you want to. I think it's better to have positive expectations and let your subconscious take over.
Best method? Have your frame dictate that playful touching is normal for you. Hug her, high-five, playful pushing, etc... Just be the guy who is comfortable enough with himself that physical expression is natural.

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Like Pleth said, "Huh?"
You don't want to pay attention to individual things really, it's much more effective to pay attention to the overall sense of how things are going. In order to effectively do that you can't just read a list of a few things, you need to get a better understanding of how body language works and what it means in general. Read some books, take some classes, whatever you can do to learn this better will help. Individual instances of playing with hair and biting of lips doesn't really mean a whole lot unless it's a consistant thing that you will mostly just feel once you have a better understanding.

Like Pleth said, be playful. Push, tickle, poke, play fight. I like a good shoulder nudge while sitting or walking beside her, but it has to be properly timed with a tease to be really effective.
That's a really bad mindframe to have. You shouldn't be trying to "break her down", you should just be having a good time with her and helping her to have a great time with you. It isn't a battle, you're both trying to find someone to be with, she isn't trying to keep something from you. She wants to find a good guy just as much as you want to find a good girl. Stop putting so much emphasis on winning and the fact that it's a "non-date" and all your objectives. Just have fun, escalate, allow her to have fun and feel sexy and everything else will follow.

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