wow i believe you outgamed yourself , if you werent so worried about iois hb8s and all the other lingo maybe you wouldnt of syced the situation into more than it was , with all due respect
the hardest thing to learn is to unlearn ,
true gamers create the party on the spot and draw the room into it

I was not there, but it seems to me you were trying far to hard, and forcing yourself.

Let it be natural, Girls can tell when you are nervous, trying hard, ext. And when they smell it, your chances are out the window. Think Lion and Gazelle.
Practice.

that exact same thing happen to me yesterday. I asked my female friend about it and she said girls talk about the guy they meet so they rather get rid of him then ruin their relationship with each other.

Though I think there is some truth to that. I think you might of not created enough comfort during your interaction with both of them. It was fun at the time for them but it wasn't enough to continue.

So, I'm by no means a pua. I can get girls, but it's not something I actively look for... I'm gay... anyway. I think there are a couple things that you probably could have done to help yourself out a little more in this case.

1. I would assume there were some nerves involved and as it was mentioned before, girls can smell that fear and lack of confidence in yourself and they will dump you in a second. You have to remember that a girl is just a girl and there are plenty more of them. I get girl cuz I don't care what happens with them. If they end up not liking me, then so what. Their loss and I'm into dudes anyway. That has to be your mentality, maybe minus the whole being into dudes part though.

2. Be social. After things were going a little wrong with the girls, instead of continuing on with a branch of the same set, you should have gone and socialized with other hbs in the club. Maybe even danced a little. You're the cool guy. Make it known. It's a good time to practice opening more sets, and as you do, you can kind of notice if she is looking back at you. She probably will be as she will be seeing what a hot commodity you are. Also, from a gay perspective, you went from gaming her to gaming her friends when things didn't go your way, which is never a cool thing to do. Make nice with her friends and move on. They will all be talking about you later.

Just don't give up so easily. And I do agree that a kiss close is not necessary. What is a kiss anyway? It ain't sex, so it's not even that important. Just get them digits player player!

As long as you do it playfully with a grin on your face that says, "wow, she has such lower value now", you can cut the "I'm sorry" out. Great advice for you from SoCalFamous though; when you get rejected just throw out a C & F one liner or a neg and then continue gaming as if it never happened. I feel bad for saying this, cause the RSD guys got no game other than for Amoging, but use Net Theory. You are the net. You choose what you want to get caught in the net and what you want pass on through the holes. Catch the good energies and hold them, let the bad ones dissipate in the Great Big Sea.

This might have been an incongruent post, so my bad. I was at a party earlier tonight where I asked a girl for water, chugged it, and realized it was her vodka. I don't drink (weakens my game slightly during the night, a shitload the morning after) and that's why this doesn't make sense.I should probably write a field report. 30 women, 7 above HB7, 1 HB9: the HB9 had to go before I could game her but I have all of her friends (other than the one who I rejected) eating out of my hand. Huge preselection and social proof for next time as well as the attraction I pulled off before she left. I had so much kino and jealousy plot lines going on that girls were jumping me. This is starting to sound like a mini brag report so I'll tell you how I did it. Mystery Method. I don't use any of the scripted shit just because it's not part of my game but take into account his analyses of alpha males. Wow ––– the man is a scientist. Bring a higher energy level to the room, smile often but not when inappropriate, and don't say sorry, just learn to be funny so that you can break whatever tension is going on with a joke. AND...start using metagame. You'll see Adam Lyons becoming really famous, really soon. He is the creator of metagame, which in basic terms, is: use your skills on the ENTIRE room, even the sets where there are no HBs. Social proof to the 10th Power. Also, if you've internalized the three second rule, Adam's explained that there's a flaw in this. If you immediately walk over to the HBs on the other side of the room, they know you're hitting on them or you're too shy so you're just talking. You immediately have lower value. If you use the three second rule, but on the closest set, within twenty minutes you can be the God of fifteen sets, and the owner of the room. You don't need to spend much time on attraction, cause you're already a rockstar.

If this didn't make sense, I hope you can still solve it like a jigsaw puzzle and learn something you can use for the rest of your PUA Life. This nonsensical rambling is a testament to why you should not drink.

"I was at a party earlier tonight where I asked a girl for water, chugged it, and realized it was her vodka."

"I don't drink (weakens my game slightly during the night, a shitload the morning after) and that's why this doesn't make sense."


I realize this post is quite old, but my bullshit sensor went off big time here... Asked for water and a girl randomly gives you vodka?? Ok... "realized" it was vodka after chugging it? Sure...

"I had so much kino and jealousy plot lines going on that girls were jumping me. This is starting to sound like a mini brag report ..." Yep, and a poorly made-up one at that!

I'm new here, but I don't like reading things like this because it suggests that the stories here may be heavily embellished, or totally fabricated... Just makes it hard to cut through the bs, (though not in this case). It's a great site though!