how many songs or what length of time should you dance with a girl before leading her back to an area where you can talk?

Just lead her away whenever the fuck you feel like it. It's not science!

I guess I'm approaching this whole PUA thing wrong. My entire life has been based around science classes I guess.

Then my question is...

Should my goal be to make sure I make the decision to stop dancing...and not her?

Yes, Stop when you like, Dance a while and then pull her and lead her to somwhere else.

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I agree with the dance until you decide to stop. And one reason why is that if you let them decide to lead you off the dance floor it's usually because they are hot or done dancing for a bit, but if you lead her off before she's tired, odds are that she'll wanna dance more and more often!

Taking these intervals helped me a lot because when I was dancing it gave me time to come up with great conversational topics(I used to freeze up VERY badly when talking to women) and then when you lead her off the floor you'll have something to talk about!

Dancing is also a great way to either initiate the kino or escalate it!

-Crain Diesel

Thanks guys. I definitely have been doing a lot of shit wrong.



how would you guys initiate the movement? I used to buy girls drinks but now I read that that is one of the worst things you could do

Intiating is actually rather easy...you can either open her by asking to dance(which gives you time to think of conversation topics...as mentioned before) or after a few minutes of small talk just simply say "Hey I really like this song!! Come dance with me!".

You can wait for a response in you want...but that's letting her make the decision...in other words a no no!

Or you can take her hand and lead her to the dance floor! If she resists, give her a little neg like "Gee, I thought you were more fun than that!"

-Crain Diesel