Ok so i have this friend. For a while now we've had lots of kino going on & we're pretty close. Now my little problem is that i don't mind the kino but i want more... Thing is i don't like her, so i don't want a relationship... i'm guessing i want more toward the terms of friends with benefits...Now i don't know what she's thinking but how do i get her thinking the same as me?

Bad idea bro....once you sleep with a girl who is a friend she will want more and since you dont she will cut you out of her life.

Hrm. True say.

She MIGHT be thinking the same thing as you...that she thinks you're hot, but knows that she wouldn't want a relationship with you.

One way to start dropping that hint, though, is to work this line into conversation..."Ya know...if we ever dated, it would NEVER work! But Damn, the sex would be amazing!"

Be prepared though, she will probably ask why it would never work.

"Are you kidding? We are too much alike! We'd kill each other!" works sometimes, depending on how good of friends you are. Just be prepared for the "why would it never work" question.

Oh that's good.