at a few colleges parties this weekend, and i couldn't quite get to the point where they're thinking "this guy is different/cool and i wanna stick around". now, it's not like they walked away or anything; the conversations were just getting me nowhere and i don't think they were invested in me.
i was doing some teasing but it didn't have the desired effect. thinking back now i probably should have just started doing some kino/routines/games from the get-go since straight up talking wasn't working. any other backup plans for sparking the initial interest?

you have to remember social circle game like college game is that the girls will talk to you unlike a bar where you would have to either have some value or attraction first.

Your better off to have a normal convo and look for commonallities then once you have rapport starting doing a little attraction like banter, teasing, cold reads ect. Its a little different than night game.

Be charismatic. Have a fire in your eyes, and pay them the right amount of attention. Easier said than done: but make yourself the target.

- hint at an inner conflict within you
- hint at an exciting lifestyle
- for the love of god, try and surround yourself with friends, always
- show scarcity - if you feel you are getting stagnant/awkward, take off for a bit
- be mysterious and tantalizing

I met this HB9 once at a club. Went to have a smoke with her, and she asked me what I did. I told her I worked for the government. Shes like "doing what?" I said I couldn't tell her. And I never told her, but I didn't blow her off either. Just was mysterious and inviting. F-closed later on.

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I go to a lot of the same bars over and over. Even though I used the exact same lines, in the exact same way, I didn't have real consistency for a long time.

I have a tendency of coming in with too much energy. I do really off the wall stuff, that's just how I like to interact with people. As a result, some nights I am the Lord, and I hook every set. Other nights people think I'm weird, and nothing seems to hook.

If you know you have great social ability, then consistency is mostly a matter of calibrating to the energy levels of the room. Once you are calibrated and in set, you can guide people to the energy levels that you want.