Hi guys.
I was wandering if you can give me some advices.
The situations is as follows:
I have a physical relationship with a woman for almost an year.
We are not seriously involved, we are just seeing each others 1 time a weak, having sex, talking and etc.
We are having a great time, each time we are together, but she does not want to have a serious relationship with me, i don't know why.
Maybe i don't have money enough, status, or ... something else.

She have my full attention, i call her, we talk, we laugh and everything is good, but she still does not want a serious relationship.

I think it is time to change my strategy.
To punish her. To play hard to get.
I haven't call her for a few days, and she share with my friends that she miss me. She does not call either.
And this is not the first time.

She may think that i have another girl, or something.
I realize that the chance to lose her is not small, but i remember:
"If you want to win a woman, you have to take the chance to lose her."

What is your opinion ?

Thank you .

I'm sure you have already done this...but what I would do is kind of mentally take a step back and think about if you really want to be with this girl!

If you do then maybe you should try a little jealousy move...nothing major, but something that will make her realize what she's missing out on. Try going to a club together and dancing with a random girl or get kinda flirty at the mall. You could even get really simple with by making up a little story about how a girl gave you her number and that you might be interested in calling her!

The biggest thing I would consider though is trying to turn the table and make her want you! start off with small things and escalate a little...but don't get rude, mean, abnoxious, etc...

Good luck!

-Crain Diesel

If you like her that much, what were you doing for an entire year? I don't buy it and I'm guessing she doesn't either.

Which one is it? 1. You're not really into her. 2. You weren't man enough to step it up.

It's got to be one or the other right? And it's pretty much the same on her end as well. I don't think that there's a "game" solution here. She knows you well enough so that if you change your present patterns, she'll probably be on to your pretty quickly.

This is one of those "If you liked it then ya shoulda put a ring on it" moments.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fb47QmTT1ck[/youtube]

We were talking about that, and she said that she does not need nothing more than this.

You didn't press "Play" did you?

Nope.