Im interested in learning what tactics girls use on us to get us attracted to them. I have seen a site that has one tip for girls saying not to email a guy until hes emailed you 3 or 4 times(how lame is that?). If i learn other things like this i will be able to predict it and call them out on it if need be.
Thankya

WTF? thats not cool

for what I've noticed, girls tend to show their attraction, if they like you most will hist at you, especially if they think you like them back.

Hints*

Laughing at all jokes, even the not so funny ones
The way she looks at you
awkwardness in her expressions (mainly shy girls)
touchy, she'll hug you when u do something cute or play fight you when you joke on her.

Girls tend to be more direct, they wont say HEY i LIKE YOU, but they'll try to be around you and talk to you.[/quote]

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check this out

The 10 commandments
The following are some rules that she may swear by (some are from the trusty The Rules bible, while others are those nasty unwritten rules that women tend to follow):

1 -- Do not call him, and rarely return his calls
2 -- Do not ask him out
3 -- Do not approach him
4 -- Always play hard to get
5 -- Never accept a weekend date if he calls you on, or after Wednesday
6 -- Let him take the lead
7 -- Insist on lavish SPAM
8 -- Do not see him twice in a row
9 -- Never pay your way
10 -- Never compliment him
Some more...
--On all non-business e-mails, responding once for every four of his e-mails is a good rule of thumb.
--Remember, the first three visits are really nothing more than three dates... and on the first three dates we don't have sex with a man or have him stay at our place overnight.
--We know this is hard to accept, but it's not that he hasn't called because he's busy, or because you didn't smile or talk enough.It's not that he lost your phone number. The bottom line is, if he hasn't called, he's not that interested. (what happened to guys waiting 3 days or whatever?)

just thought i would give a heads up on this stuff. the book is called "The Rules", basically a girls version of "The Game"...remember this is only some girls. havnt heard of it until now, its been out since 1995 :S

Good grief. No wonder this is so hard.

Hi there.

I'm a female and I'd like to think I'm doing okay an the PUA side.

First off The Rules is bullshit.
Janis Spindel, who is America's #1 matchmaker says "If you view dating as a game you win by beating the other person you are never going to be happy". I agree.

The Game is a Co-op.

First thing I've learned is show attraction. Don't be needy and don't seem slutty but show that you're interested.
Don't drink too much. No boy wants to think that you're only into him when you're drunk.
For the love of Gods approach him. I have NEVER been blown out of a set. Ever. Even saying Hi to a boy will make him smile.
Ask him out. Most boys are afraid to pull the trigger and ask themselves.
Let him lead, until he stops leading. Then you need to give him a little push.
Be polite. Don't ignore him.
Be honest. Tell him what you want and make sure it really is what you want.

Books like The Rules are stupid.
Men are not drooling animals that have to be kept on leashes. They're humans just like us and they deserved the same respect as us.

So that's my take at it. Relationship books are pretty good for this advice but mostly you have to ask other women. This is what I've gotten so far.

Cinnamon

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thanks for clearing this up a little
now since your here, do you ever be flaky on purpose in hope there will be more attraction?

No. Never.

Gods no.

Think about it from the guy's perspective. There's not going to be more attraction. There's only going to be anger that you flaked and worry that you're just not that into them.

Like I said, I don't play games. That's part of how I set myself apart from other girls and wind up on the laps of bartenders in front of their managers while they're at work.

Cinnamon

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hmmm
so when a girl is being fickle... and you can see shes interested. She just cant see it from the guys perspective?
what is she trying to accomplish? attraction?

She may not be that interested.
Or she may head read this stuff and thought this was a good idea.
Next time you see her, or when you can contact her, tell her you two need to talk.

Then sit her down and tell her that this is not acceptable.
Let her know she is losing your interest because she's playing these games.
Be cool, but set it out for her that you simply will not accept this behavior anymore.

Honestly put your foot down and be prepared to follow through the consequences if she doesn't comply.

The only way to deal with crap like this is to sit her down and call her out on it.

We are socially programed that this crap is what 'nice guys really want'. Let her know it's crap.

Cinnamon

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haha sickkk
you pretty much answered my other thread
thankya

Well, I can tell you one thing, a girl that is clingy is a HUGE turnoff for me.

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Not a problem.

I find there's a lot of crap in these books. Some are good but some can be just AWFUL.

Glad I could help.

Cinnamon

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