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Opening up
So tonight was fucking crazy...
Part 1-
I had a date night for a little bit with one of the girls I'm dating...I got to her place around 8 and we opened up about everything...I told her my deep secrets and totally opened up. It was magical haha...I'm usually stuck in "man" mode, and rarely open up. She made me dinner, we talked, and the more I told her, the more turned on she got. Everything I told her was the truth, but there were a few times when talking to her that her eyes really lit up. Such as when I said-
"I never tell anyone about this...I feel so safe with you..girl's never make me feel this way"
"You know, this is nice, I love how we can tell each other anything"
(being very sincere and making deep eye contact, really said everything from my heart)
It was almost making her breathless..we were connecting on such a deep level...she wanted to take everything I said deep inside her and turn it into affection and love...I hope she's not falling for me...we'll see
updated later.....
Part II
My girl Courtney Lives about two blocks from this girl, so we had been texting randomly throughout the night. Around 11 or so I left the first girl, and walked over to Courtney's and hung out with her and her friend, who was visiting from NIU. She's bi, and we've had 3sums b4 so I kinda got the idea it was going to happen. We played spin the bottle with a bottle of wine, and all just started making out. Within 20 minutes they were giving me a double bj and we eventually all fucked. Afterwards they had told me that they were planning on fucking me for awhile, and knew it was going to happen tonight. A lot of guys overlook the power of sex, but if you fuck a girl good once, it's like marketing your dick. All her friends will hear about it, and think about you sexually. You get the right girl, and you will have infinite 3sums with different girls. It's so much fun.
Part I continued...
Afterwards I went back to the first girls house and played truth or dare...I made her dry "ride" me with clothes on, turn me on without touching me, show me her best runway walk and "blue steel" face, then make her show me how good of a cuddler she is, I was just in a chill mood. We had the most amazing sex I've ever had, and I just had a 3sum a half hour before. We had passionate sex, and I took a nap in her arms...what the fuck is happening to me. Afterwards she told me she has never been turned on by a guy so much. The fact that I opened up to her really got her going, she HAD to have me.
After that my girl in Wicker Park called me and asked me to come over for a drink, but I was fucking worn out.
keys-
Learn how to fuck, seriously, so important. Make a girl cum and you'll never be without sex. Most girls I know say that they never cum from sex, maybe 1 out of 10 guys. Market your dick.
Opening up and making her feel like shes the only one you can talk to really takes things to a deeper level. Really makes her feel safe and invested, brings out a side that most guys never think of. Pickup can make you forget women are deep, loving, caring beings.
Learn that positive, powerful relationships is really what we're all after, we just lose sight of it and think of every girl as a "set".
One thing the first girl told me was-"I never knew you had this side to you. I always was intimidated by you...you're so much fun and high energy, it's so amazing to know that you have this side to you...makes me feel secure and comfortable..."
One thing I get caught up in sometimes is always being so high energy...over the past few weeks I've changed things. I still go nuts when I go out, but I've learned to really fluctuate my energy levels...tone it down when necessary. Tone it down after attraction, don't intimidate her, let her know you're a person just like her.
Long post...hopefully I'm making sense. There are a few key points in there that I think a lot of guys really overlook, and it's the basic things that hold us back. We all know enough material, we just need calibration. We need to know what energy to have, when to do this, not what to do. And remember, none of this can be done on the couch:) If you can really connect on a deeper level, get tunnel vision, and make her feel like she's the only thing in the world, then you will really improve. Be passionate, say things from the heart, not something out of an e-book. Be passionate, fun, positive, and bring everyone into your awesome reality.
T-ReX
Great post, yeh it's true a guy who know how to treat a girl in bed will always be in demand, especially if word gets out.
Most women don't want just a screw, they want a great sexual experience and I prefer the term making love than fuck. Also for me it's the chase and the expectation of experiencing a guy's body for the first time. Maybe why I enjoy one night stands so much
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