Ok so this girl i got to school with and i had been getting pretty close. Everyday i can't leave or enter the school without her calling my name to be given a hug, a big kiss on the cheek, or the casual a kiss on each cheek. so i let her come to me. we haven't done anything except friendly stuff & a little big of flirting..Thing is she just keeps talking about these other guys at her work.... I always respond with a sarcastic comment. So what is up with this? She is a classy girl. So what is happening? Does she like me? (I am the only guy in the whole school she acts this way with.) Am i stuck in the ljbf zone? I've never been confused like this with a girl...

- Un-discovered

She most probably wants you. She's trying to make you jealous.

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I've figured. I'm curious if i should just ask her what am i to her?

no. nononono. Don't do that.

If anything, the next time you are in a highly ecstatic and flirtatious moment with her, maybe give her a hug and casually suggest to meet up after school or something. Just remember to keep it flirtatious and be completely indifferent to her reactions.

Don't verbalize where you stand with a girl. Always always a bad thing to do. Convey it subconsciously through actions and subtext, and learn to read her non-verbal cues better.

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Okay thanks. I need to learn to read her more. I need to get used to spotting ioi's & just reading her movements more. Any idea where i can do this?

Being more social and confident will help this. Set positive affirmations so that you assume more IOI's than you currently do. In fact it would probably better for you to take everything a woman does to get your attention as an IOI.

There are of course a lot of products that will help you recognize. David Deangelo is good for this among others.

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thanks bud.

Okay there are three ways you can approach this girl, you can do a highly caveman move called the "kiss curveball". When you lean in to give her a kiss on the cheek, etc. Move your head a little bit and kiss her on the lips NO TONGUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And when you do this try to squeez her hand and if she squeezes back your in, in usually confuses the hell outa them.

Second you can do this little trick, ask her to play a game. Its a trust test to see how close we are . Tell her to do exactly what you do, or what you say to do. Put your hands out tell her to put them on top. Tell her to move them with you, go up down and sideways. Say something stupid to where she failed but she can have another try if you like. This time tell her to hold your hands. Tell her to close her eyes, and ask her if she really trusts you, if she says no pull away and try to start all over again, if she says yes squeeze her hands, she needs to squeeze back, then you lean in for a soft gentle kiss with NO! TONGUE!!! squeez her hands to see if she likes, she most lkely will

Last but not least is the "BET"

Tell her you want to make a bet, she can do anything to you if she wins and you get what you want if you win. Tell her to answer all of your questions with lies, if she can get past five she wins.

Q1: Whats the color of the sky?
HB: red
Q2: What color shirt am i wearing?
HB: (something way off)
Q3: IS your name (blank)
HB: no
YOU:How many questions is that?
HB: four
YOU: you just lost

lean in and take your prize, this is kinda outgoing

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what if she doesn't squeeze my hands back after she closed her eyes?