OK well after reading the book about 7 months ago or so, joining this site, I wound up getting with about 6 chicks without really even trying in that period. To some (if not most of you) that's what you get inside a week. Well, good for you! Id love to do that but as it is right now thats a bit unrealistic. I live in my fathers basement, moved in after the Marines to help him out with the house and wound up getting laid off so now he is helping me. My oh my how times change.

So in any case Im fairly good at getting the panties on the floor and know how to work them out where ever we are. So the sex game isn't needed. Openers, mind changers, and all that I do need help in. Mainly because my level of intelligence and experience is way beyond most of the AFC's (my version is Average Fucking Chumps, both men and women) but my social graces is way below theirs. So in essence it makes me a basic AFC in the social settings.

I like breaking into the minds of others so I can better connect with them, and I read people great, its just the communication part that kills it. Unless they are crazy, smarter then me, or, a scary combo of both I cant break through to them.

So whats the ish? I want to learn a bit more NLP in the sense of how the player uses it. I picked up NLP for dummies, and believe it or not I learned a lot. But as far as its application to what we do here, its a bit vague. Word play, language usage, and subliminal tongue slips are gone over, but not in depth.

So what are some of the best reading materials/videos? I did a quick search on things to read/watch but most of it takes a lot of digging to get to, so maybe someone should compile a good list of material that has given them the best results? Or did I completely miss this?

Don't believe the hype, I know very few people who pull consistently.

Once a month isn't too bad. With some materials and going out a lot, it will be pretty easy for you to boost that up to once a week.

It seems like you already have some decent success, were they all social circle and you just need to figure out how to approach?

Have you listened to this?

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/audio.asp

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Eh the hype isnt shit to me. I could care less about what other dudes do, cause as I see it, I havent met them so their "high scores" mean nothing to me. If I had a real PUA as a friend Id try a competition. I have one friend that thinks hes a PUA, but he pulls some of the most disfigured chicks Ive ever seen.

Actually most of them are just random. You know, dont go hunting, but still hunt without thinking about it. Thats how I work my game. And apparently I have a lot of good online game to, as the last 3 chicks were off the net (2 from hotornot, 1 from myspace).

I havent heard that yet, but will be.

As to the above paragraph, I dont mean to come off abrasive, as I always love to get good advice from people out there that actually do this and succeed, but I meant it to say as if youre in an argument with a keyboard cowboy, in the end, they are behind a different keyboard then you so why compare yourself with someone you dont even know, much less can fact check their record? Not possible, so I dont bother.

Basically Im looking to get out, and learn openers or break the crickets back. My real weakness in game are smokers (i hate them) and generally stupid sheeple. I cant break the ice with some one that doesnt have any substance in their life.