I've seen so many posts from guys who are caught in the "friend-zone" I thought it was time I decifer the truth's about it. If you don't want to know what I'm about to tell you, you can stop reading now....otherwise, grab a blue-pill and lets get started.

First of all, there really is NO such thing as the "Friend-Zone"....it's an illusion. There is only ATTRACTION or LACKTHEREOF. When a woman feels no attraction for you, she places you in her friend zone. This is really just a waste station for guys she'll never date who are there for one reason, to pump up her self-esteem. What's worse, most guys who end up in the friend zone got there for the very same reason they can't get out. They either:

1. Supplicated

2. Communicated interest too early

3. OR gave away their power with little or no challenge

For lack of better words, they are by all accounts, their own worst enemy. To add to the madness, their plan for getting out of the friend zone, like most AFC's, is to repeat these 3 EXACT SAME mistakes with 10X the might!! Ironically, this is what inevitably seals their fate....and dooms them to a lifetime of platonic friendship with the woman they desire.

Is there a way out? Fortunately, the answer is yes. But just as unfortunately, most guys caught in the Friend Zone can't see past their own "one-itis" long enough to understand what it takes to get out. They're too busy dealing with their own counter-productive thoughts and idea's of wanting to please her and buy her gifts, send her emails, roses, and other useless attempts to "win" her affection. This is NOT the way you build attraction btw.....whether you're in the Friend Zone or not....but ESPECIALLY if you're in the Friend Zone. Newsflash: The reason why you're in the Friend Zone in the first place is because she feels NO attraction for you. So in order to get OUT of the Friend Zone she actually has to FEEL attraction for you. Wow, how's that for a concept! Finally some logic when it comes to women.

So how do you get her to feel attraction for you? Hmmmmm....this is a question I'll pose back at you. How do you get a COMPLETE STRANGER to feel attraction for you? Could it possibly be the same as working normal game? WHOA, we're 2 for 2 today. You're absolutely right Einstein....you work your game like you would ANY other set....the only difference is, now that you've fucked up and put yourself in the Friend Zone, you'll have to work a little harder to get yourself out. Which means you'll be parading other women in front of her, making plans with her, then flaking on her, because you forgot you had plans with the other women in your life that DON'T put you in the Friend Zone. And most importantly, you will STOP doing what you did to put yourself there in the first place. Which means, no more supplicating, no more poems, and no more emails....until she has EARNED it. I know this sounds hard, no longer handing over all your power, money and poems to the woman you desire, hoping you can win her affection this way, but if you quiz the last 100,000 guys who've taken this road, which they repave every 6 weeks for the next 100,000 guys, you'll find you have 2 things in common....1) You're still in the Friend Zone and 2) You're still looking for a way out.

Now that we've debunked the myths of the Friend Zone, let's take a look at some of the positive aspects of being in the Friend Zone, from a PUA standpoint of course, where you can use it to your benefit.

In advanced game, being in the Friend Zone is not always a bad thing, contrary to popular belief. There are times when I will strategically PLACE myself in the Friend Zone purposely, in order to become part of her life....then, work my game from INSIDE the Castle. Of course, this is a set up from the start....this is usually with a woman who has a boyfriend or is in a serious relationship already, and the ONLY way IN is through the Friend Zone. But again, it's just another illusion...as I've mentioned before, there IS no Friend Zone...only Attraction OR Lackthereof. So when she ACCEPTS my request to be just a "friend", knowing she has a boyfriend, it is actually an IOI....she's interested. And placing me in her imaginary Friend Zone is just another way of making her feel less guilty about what she's about to do. Don't get me wrong, like all females, she does have a Friend Zone, and it consists of lots of guys, or prisoners I should say....the only difference is I am the exception. I will appear to LOOK like everyone else, at least from the outside looking in....but there is a MAJOR hidden agenda that separates me from ALL the other inmates serving life terms. I am getting out, THEY are not.

This is one of the rare times being in the Friend Zone is actually a plus, instead of a minus. So what have we learned from all this? Let's sum it up. First, we've learned the Friend Zone is nothing more than an illusion. It doesn't exist. Second, the reason you got there is rediculously the same reason you can't get out. And third, being in the Friend Zone is not always a bad thing. Especially when it's the ONLY way in. Questions?? Comments??