So we had a staff party a couple of days ago, and this girl whom never really talks to me, was all of a sudden REALLY into me. She kept asking what I was doing the whole evening and when I told her the party we were going out, she said to let her know...

So were on our way out I notify her, she tells me I shouldnt go, I should really stay. I tell her I can't do that, because I promised alot of people I have to go. I knew she wanted some but I seriously couldnt stay. Anyways she felt kinda stupid because I kinda turned her down.

Anywho I was just wondering if there was any way I can get a lay out of the situation after all that. any advice?

I think she had an agenda, personally.

If she found you attractive then, she'll find you attractive next time you see her. If not... something was definitely up.

Don't chase after her, or any woman for that matter... chasing is their job.

That's not how it works. Women's brains are not men's brains. Sorry.

You probably lost your window of opportunity there, buddy. Next time you get a window like this, don't hesitate and just close the deal.

I guess I'm just paranoid sometimes.

A girl I was fooling around with once brought up blood-play... she wanted me to cut her. I just ended up cutting her off completely. It reeked of some kind of setup. (For the record, I wouldn't be opposed to such an idea with someone I knew and trusted.)

Damn I have trust issues.