Hey guys.. I wanted to make this as clear as possible, cause alot of you are new and reading mystery, or niel strauss. Guys, you can say whatever the fuck you want..I don't care what it is. Dont modify what you say cause she might think its stupid, believe in your beliefs or words. THAT IS ATTRACTIVE. Fuck what mystery or anybody else teaches. You say what the fuck you want, they say what will save their asses...Get your mindframe right first though. But remember guys, you can go up to a girl and say "hi whats your name" it works i don't give a fuck what anybody says, cause i just made love to a cutie today, and i said "hi, whats your name" its alot about the sub communications.

Basically, all bullshit aside, THE ENTIRE GAME is ALL about your inner mindset, (inner game) and having those attractive male attributes (body language, not giving a fuck, da da da.) If you have those things down, all you really need to do is conversate with her. And she will either be attracted to you or not. I don't even really worry about kino, unless you absolutely KNOW that you are gonna fuck her, and your just gettin things heated up. But what comes out of your mouth doesn't matter AT ALL. AT ALL. I've had a girl want me just by me saing barely anything, i just asked things about herself, and have an alpha atitude and the right mindset. And if your worrying about going sarging or whatever, stop worrying, don't feel you need to approach, just feel you should conversate with women you want, and that she will be attracted cause you know your sexy. The more you conversate, the better you get, and yea, you can start be eye contact, and just saying "hi" to begin with. You can't just start at the top.

"BUT I THOUGHT YOU SAID I DON'T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT WORDS"
you don't, but you do need to get used to saying things to women. Cause your inner game can be DEAD on, and your atitude, SOLID, and you END UP just walk around in the store or club not talking to any girls. But no, what you say doesn't matter still as long as you say sometihng just for the sake of saying something... Just get this right guys. Stop listening to some of these gurus that tell you you have to tell stories, dhv spikes, qualification, NO, that is bullshit, and they all know this. These things show from a natural body language and atitude that comes from mindset... good luck guys, and i hope you the best in the field.

just get ur game tight,idk about words not mattering, adapt the game around u tho,

i'm startign to get my game real tight, on the verge of a HB10 bj-close, HB10 F-close and an HB6 bj-close,

all at the same time, get ur game tight and run it on everything, everywhere is a place tor un game, i work at a resturant and i'm constantly running routines on old bitches,

words definatly dont matter, u'll realize that once u get ur feet wet in the game

Great post!
Im starting to learn what your talking about.
Im not much of a talker at all! But women are very attractive to me, especially since ive adopted the those mindsets you were talking about.
I could not figure out what it was that made women attracted to men, then i just noticed it from my own life. Its just that attitude!
As far as talking goes, ive learned you only need to talk to them in order to make a "connection" to them. Let them know you dont not like them and could be interested.
I am very macho acting, im also a big dude with a dont give a shit attitude.
Ill tell you about one hot girl i met:
She was a little bratty and i didnt like it, so i was just a big jerk to her. This lasted about 5 min, then the next day i teased her for like 30 seconds about here nose peircing(i hate nose piercings). Then the next time she saw me she told me a story about some old guy trying to pick me up....im not much for conversation so i just nodded. Now I can tell sees totally into me, see always pinches my butt and makes sexual advances on me. Which i just ignore and it drives her crazy.
I always thought that you had to be a charming, funny, super conversationalist, but i just keep this attitude and i basically find women coming after with me and i can pick them up without even talking to much? Its strange.
Of course, i know this wont work in every senario, these are girls im usually see at alot and are somewhat talkitive

Words do matter, but its more the use of them than anything else. As you do have to be sociable and saying unsociable things won't do you much good even with good inner game. Part of picking up girls is being able to be sociable.

i know guys that say stupid shit, nothing very interesting and who i think are idiots but they are confident and usually a badass attitude and they have no problem with women. And no problems making friends

Fuck yea

yea, no, words don't really matter. Yea, you don't wanna say something completely stupid, but if you believe in what you say, and don't back down, no, you won't look like a retard. You will be original and not give a fuck what anybody thinks. Like i've said, alot of women are coming into my life, like usual and i was only worrying about the words to say in the beginning, but now that i know, no, words that you say don't matter.

Cigt ungoporp chee, stob echie dtin! hoag zo messaharn, kim int opollnaddy.

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I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that while the specific words don't matter, strictly speaking, that using more meaningful words will allow you to get more mileage out of your conversations. There's no good sense in using any old words just because you can. Find a happy medium. Don't fret over trying to the perfect thing to say, but fill your conversation with as much substance as you prefer.

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Lets just say this, I've made a girl fall in love, with me, from my body language alone,atitude, and the way i looked at her. Done.

DONE!!!




Shake and bake!
Did that just happen?

I had this one HB come up to me in the pub. She broke the ice, asked me questions and basically begged me for my number! Words did not matter in this situation.

When influencing another person, be it feelings(emotions), or thoughts, 7% consist of words, 33% tone, and 60% body language.

Body language has the strongest impact, consider tone and words to be complimentary tools.

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A guy gets laid by doing a screeching like a monkey and what . . . will this be the "BEST" method ever and nothing else matters?

What's with you young kids and addictions/allegiances to one thing or another? I can practically picture some of you with Chairman Mao's red pamphlets running around praising one thing over another. Then of course after you tire of one camp, you run over to another.

Words don't matter? Through words ONLY, written, verbal, or in any form, you can effectively influence another's emotions. You can change their spirituality. You could get them to physically change their positions. Words are incredibly powerful.

Everything matters. 76.99% what? Guys, you can change those percentages around as much or as little as you want to. So are you saying you can't influence somebody through a phone conversation?

There was a field report recently where a guy closed without any words at all. Then there are of course successful reports based on guys using ONLY text messages. Guys, take it easy. If you find one thing that works well. Well, that's one thing. Keep going . . . keep figuring it out. What's good? What's better? When is it better? Why is it better? Who does it work better to?

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Ceres my body with your hands......
Talk dirty over the phone.....
Text me what you want to do to me......

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