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| spoolthboost | PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 6:31 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 19, 2009 6:28 am Posts: 1 | | hey guys i just turned 18 and im goin to some clubs now. What are some good openers to get a girl to dance with me in a club setting?
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| Plethora | PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 6:53 am | |
Joined: Tue Sep 23, 2008 3:42 am Posts: 625 Location: Vancouver | | Appear to be having loads of fun, happy, and completely indifferent to whether she wants to dance with you or not.
Everyone dances in a club, people aren't shy. If you look like you are fun then you will be accepted. A playful challenge to the girl is always a good idea too. _________________ There are no failures, only feedback.
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| pedro2385 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 11:10 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sun Nov 23, 2008 10:56 pm Posts: 122 | | Clubs are different animals to a normal approach. You can't really talk because targets tend to be dancing and the music is so loud it is hard to hear.
With clubs my approach is to enjoy myself so that i can get on the same energy level and then just jump straight in. You need to be confident and lead the girl. You only need basic dance techniques I know because i can't dance very well.
The big thing is don't give a s**t. Try to make eye contact, then show dominant body language as you approach, then dance. It can be daunting but remember if she turns you down so what. Carry on dancing and having fun there are plenty more women there.
One night a girl turned me down, i carried on dancing, having fun and approaching more targets. Later on she came over to me tried to dance. I gave her a neg then started dancing with her. Used the push/pull technique and it worked.
Good luck. Pedro.
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