| So I had all systems go for my palm reading lesson with a new HB, and I picked the location and time because I remember reading somewhere that you are in charge. So I picked a park and a location she was familiar with and got there five minutes late, but she knew because we had been texting all day (some of which I found in the Mid-Game section I think). We looked for each other for about 10 minutes and instead of making me seem like the dummy who got lost I say this as I answer the phone:
me: Hey Ms. Flake.
HB: How am I a flake?
me: I don't see you here
HB: Where are you?
me: Right in front of X-location.
HB: I see you!!!
The day went well. I told her a DHV story about my best friend who I saved from an asshole at school freshman year (true story) and we bought some grub from a local bakery. We found a spot in the park and I started to teach her how to read palms. I need to throw the kino into high gear so I laid down on the grass and waited to see if she'd follow. She did after getting tired of bending her hand towards me and was laying next me. I read her palm at least three times it seemed like she was really into it, but I choked and could not kiss her or even throw in any overt kino. We laid there for a while and then my game just started to slip away. By the end i was back to an old trick i use to used on dates as an AFC
"You're a big question mark to me,"
HB: "So are you,"
Me: "Tell me something then, anything about yourself."
after a little pause
HB: "This feels like an interview and I hate interviews,"
Me: "Then say one thing you wanna know about me?"
HB: That's like the same thing, but with me on the other side of the interview.
I ended up getting minimal information out of her. Since I was off my game and somehow back in AFC world, I told her a 2 minute biography which she did seem interested in, but I know biography = LJBF 99% of the time.
I started to notice she seemed uncomfortable so I played the cube game and and said it was connected to her personality through blah blah blah. She laughed and agreed. I pulled the plug when she wouldn't face me as we sat in the grass anymore. As we took out separate ways home I tried one last time with the MM trust test. She messed up the first time, not knowing what to do, and the second time I helped her she still messed up. I figured in order to salvage any chance with this girl I would leave her wanting more, even if it was a minuscule amount.
me: "You gotta learn to trust me," i said.
hb: "It's takes me a while to trust people,"
me: "maybe we should do this again then?"
i give her a hug, but she gives the "Hey bro" one armed hug.
HB:"yea, ok. Bye"
What exactly am I asking?
First, i realize that there is a small percentage of women who have death-star like shells to protect themselves from becoming attached. Does this sound like one of those cases?
Second, I fell of my game, and I completely realize this. I really want to develop my own style and routines which work with me. I understand that I have practice with what is presented on this site as much as possible in the field. What would help me see the potential pitfalls in my game and how do i fix them?
Finally, Should I follow up with this girl at all? My gut tells me go worry about the next date I have on monday with another one, but my mind is telling me to attempt more game on the first one while giving "Monday" a stock routine.
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