Kinda long but hear me out...

Alright well I met this girl like 2 weeks ago... sooo cute, she's 18, and from what all her friends tell me she used to be unattractive. Braces, pudgy, ya know the works. So she just recently grew into her face/body and now shes easily an 8.

Well anyway I guess she's never really had a bf... so shes a virgin. She hooks up with guys at partys and stuff but I'm pretty sure she's never done much besides make out. She seems really insecure which makes plenty of sense from what her friends say.

So anyway, I've partied with her like 3 different times. The first time I got to know her and her group of friends, was cocky funny, i knew i had their attention and i knew they were all attracted to me. The next time we party i hook up with her friend but the girl i have my eye on puts her number in my phone anyway... So we start texting and talking on the phone like every other day, I play kinda hard to get, act like i might be interested in her friend. I could see she was getting jealous so i would say things like "i know you like me" and when i said things like this she would be "you wish, go for my friend"

About a week later i have her and all her friends over my house. We're drinking and what not and I finally kissed this girl. Everyone left and she ended up staying. basically i felt like i was in kindergarden she kept like pecking me on the cheek and if we started making out and thing started to get heavy she would stop and like kiss me on the forehead... very annoying. I ended up rolling over and going to sleep.

Now shes texting me saying things like "you likeee me... blah blah" i usualyl just ignore her act like its her that likes me... I mean idk I can tell shes attracted but its kinda awkward

my question is how do I get this girl to loosen up? How do i keep attraction going when i dont want to come off as an arrogant prick? I mean i know shes insecure. I'm not used to being in this situation... any help is greatly appreciated

I know a thing or two about virgins and she doesn't sound like one to me. Just a hunch that I have. I wouldn't spend time on her. I also would quit being a fake. Just be who you are. The TRUE you would run circles around the fake you. Love yourself. You deserve that.