So i go tthis HOT HB9 teacher here, she laghs at my jokes, takes intrest in comments, and plays with me, i think these are IOIs, im also a party promoter and she showed intrest in my party and other2 businesses, im 19, i would say she is 28, and is a TV newscaster/ancor/producer. oh and she is married. any tips on winning her over and getting her out of the classroom without making her feel like she would be on a date with her student or like breaking the "rules". also so i dont get shot down and comprimise my grade, shit i dont really care about my grade but still any advice will help. this is a new area for me

thanks

oh and she is married.

It's not worth the trouble, walk away...

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I think you're playing will fire. She has alot to lose (job / marriage etc.) One of the codes of PUA is leave them better than you find them. Unless you are serious I can't see that being possible.

However...

Sure practice your game on her, she seems like a fun target! You could try the path of inviting her with some of her tv friends to your party (say you would value her opinion as your always looking at suggestions to improve the party / make a bigger name.) ... use her as a pivot / social proof and game her friends.

Dont do it its not worth it. Stay away from married women! you will regret it and feel bad and so will she.

Being a PUA comes with great power! so dont use them to do bad....you could break up a marriage and ruin two peoples lives.

thanks for making me feel liek shit guys... no i appreciate it

Reality check. These guys saved you from attempting something that would end bad for either you or her and if it ended bad for her, then it would end up bad for you as well, so either way you're screwed. THANK THEM, don't be complain because your little wet dream isn't going to come true because you weren't being realistic and were only thinking about yourself.

You're here to learn lessons about life and become a better person, sometimes that includes tough love, like me telling you this. If you get upset and pout about it then you don't learn anything, but if you appreciate the fact that everyone told you the same thing, so it's probably good advice, then you learn from it and you become that better person you're striving to be.

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I'm gonna play devil's advocate here and disagree with all the other guys' views.

Hot married teacher giving you IOIs? Ooh, how taboo. I'm intrigued.

Of course, you should keep the "leave her better than you found her" motto in mind. I think that the case for most married women, however, is that they are SUFFERING from a lack of sexual fulfillment. This is one of the many reasons I don't agree with the institute of marriage and the concept of eternal monogamy in the first place. I'll go so far as to assert that sometimes an affair is exactly what will leave a lot of flirty married women better you found them.

I say, go ahead and play with that fire. I probably would if I were in your situation. 28? Sounds great.

Keep the verbal record clean by keeping the actual conversation content relatively professional, playful at most. At the same time, project sexual state and triangular gaze often. Who knows what could come from all that sexual tension?

Sarge on.

soryy i was being sarcastic with my last post i should have added an lol at the end i wasnt complaining, though it sounded like it

well its my braodcast preformance class, and im going to keep it flirty and keep the tension so far here is what has happened,


when we did our intros tot he class, we had to hold up and object that we had with us that represented us, i held up my speedo and everyone laughed,

teacher: why that?

Me: because i swim and im fit, i live a healthy active lifstyle full of fun and excitment, and it take a real confident yet yet self assured man with a great sense of humor to pull one of these off, plus i look hot in it it (with a huge grin)

teacher:where do you swim at,

me: here at school.

teacher: omg im a horrible swimmer maybe you could teach me something,

me: sure but you have to wear a string bikini since im in a speedo.

(laughs all round)


next....same day....

this is my braocast performance class and this lady is a news anchor so you know shes hot. but we had to do those tounge twisters liek

how now brown cow

mine was to say "toy boat" 5 times fast

i did with ease, (prior i told ger i was a good singer as well)

teacher: wow so does singing help you say those?

me: no im just really good at making out

teahcer: what?

me:well that was a toungue twister and "usually" you use your tounge when you make out

teahcer:lol we called that french kissing

me: yeah there is also australian kisses

teacher:relly what is that?

me:like a french kis but....down under

(class errupts)


lastly, i was last one to leave class (on purpose of course) she asks me

teach:so your a party promoter,you sing, and you have a jewelry line, and you DJ?

me: yeah,wow you were really paying close attention, i must be like your favorite student

tech:well the most interesting, what do you sing

me:anything but i really like sinatra

teach:oh i like the oldies and the 80s do a little ditty

me:(i sing she claps)

teach: wow

me: thanks but if you really wanna hear me belt it you have to come over when im taking a shower.

teach: you are too funny, what about this party your having

me:(tell her about party kino with my hand on her shoulder)

teach:wow sounds amazing

me:yeah you should come so my mom wont be the only old person there! (grin) well see you next week

tech: dont be late this time bye


ther chief that was all in one day...the first day, what do you think?

I respect your position, but I'm going to have to disagree with it. If you make it absolutely clear that sex is what she wants, then you are leaving her better than you found her. She is unfulfilled in some way at home. Sex is very important for human health and life, and if she makes it clear that she needs you to fulfill it, then I say go for it. This is all within the context of not manipulating her, for example, like saying you'd marry her if she left her husband. She needs to know 100% that this is just sexual fulfillment.

k. i'm gonna go straight ahead and not read any other responses. Dude maybe you should read your message back, i read it like "I have a hot teacher that is married, how do I get her?" seriously man she will loose her job if she gets with you and is probably old enough to be your mum. Quell your urge to get what you can't have and look at the situation logically. She is married (I guess she loves her husband), She is older than you and can't actually hit on you without loosing her job. So why would she? ... back to girls your own age and maybe some reflection xxxx

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When I am 60 I still won't be dating anything that age. Oh well, that is just me. If you want to win her over I would suggest you ask yourself why? If you care about someone why would you want to even think of f---- up their life?

Lets see you've been trying to game this teacher for a while.... you're still in the exact same postition with her today as you were back then.

Please let us know when you've come back from fantasy land

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Alright, I've been reading this thread again and I've decided to give some constructive advice.

People flirt with other people for reasons other than just trying to hook up with them. For many people it is a form of release and a way of keeping their lives from stagnating while in relationships. This is a healthy way of stopping themselves from becoming bored, dissatisfied, or depressed while in a monogomous relationship such as a marriage, without cheating and ruining that relationship and their lives.

Just because someone flirts with you doesn't mean that they mean anything by it. I flirt with everyone, gay men, fat women, old women, married women, hot straight single women, doesn't matter because most of the time it doesn't mean anything. Flirting is fun, creates positive energy and is uplifting, but doesn't necessarily mean that they desire to take it any further, cause I definitely won't do anything with the gay men, fat women, old women, or most married women (there's exceptions when she isn't happy with her relationship). This is why so many guys get frustrated that they can't get a girl who they've decided is interested in them just because they thought she gave him 3 IOIs!

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~ Rye

Especially as much as we talk around here of continuing to flirt after you're in a monogamous relationship. Flirting and being desired by members of the opposite sex is sexy. By flirting with her, you're helping to keep her sexier to her husband. Good job, man. That's a service to humanity. But you don't have to escalate it. There are lots of women you can pick up. The fact that you're flirting with your hot, married teacher makes you sexier to other girls, just like it makes her sexier to her husband. Use that power constructively and everybody ends up happier.

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Some vices miss what is right because they are deficient, others because they are excessive, in feelings or in actions, while virtue finds and chooses the mean.
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