Very true about having style. BUT, you could look like a used douchebag and still pick up girls... as long as you understand the game. Style has described sarges where he looks like he just got up and he is in his sweatpants and a t-shirt and he still number closes. Also, David X looks like a troll, but he still is recognized as a mPUA.

In regards to style, listen to Giacomo. You have a much better chance with style. You know those guys that look "smooth"? Become them, with your own variations on your own style.

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-Love, Charity, and Esteem-

A girlfriend is good experience to have, but its not all that great man.

Its good to know in the back of your mind that you were able to game a girl and have her stuck on you, but on the other hand, once you have a girlfriend you may revert back to your old self. Its hard to stay a pua if your tied down to one girl, it just goes against the whole pua thing.

And trust me from personal experience, a gf only slowed down my road to becoming a pua. What a waste of 10 months, the only thing I got out of it was knowledge of gaming one girl. Something I could have down in less then a week.

If by 'not having a girlfriend' you mean "not getting anywhere with women at all" - which would describe my situation, let me say this:

It's not going to change unless you make it change. I've been waiting for shit to happen as if 'by accident' for ages, and it doesn't. If you don't venture anything you don't gain anything. Consequently I'm 24, without a scooby of anything girl related.

I knew this all along but after finding out about this PUA stuff I have become much more convinced that I need to do something about it. I wish I'd read this book 8 years ago, just to kick me up the backside sooner.