First of, options were endless for the night. Going out with a wing to the clubs and bars in town, go to a private party with some other friends, or go drinkin' at the island outside of town. I picked the last one, strangely (Or maybe not, 'cause I knew it would be a lot of people crammed in to that small area
).
Me and a friend (who has never even heard the term PUA) arrived at the house of a friend of his, to begin to socialize with some of the people that would later find themselves on the "sacred" island were the party was held. To summarise it, there were in the beginning one set.. Me, my friend (18 years), the owner of the house (most totaly sick natural I've ever seen) and his girlfriend, and 2 other guys (about 23 years old). It later joined 2 more sets, one with 3 girls, and one with 2 guys and 2 girls.
There weren't really any HB's.. But I still decided to make a girl my target. (In the beginning of the night I rated her as a 8.. later on I found she was more like a 7
) Anyway, started ignoring her and made good contact with her 2 friends (turns out we have a lot of mutual friends) and like didn't speak a word to my target for maybe 2 hours
(Well, no, I thought that I would later find a better chick, but better keep my options open). Anyway, lightly negged this really quiet girl, and didn't speak to her almost. One of the 23 year old guys then told me 'bout his plan:
Creepy guy: I'm gonna lay her tonight if I don't find a girl with bigger boobs. Then I'm gonna titf*ck her.
Me: Yeah right. I think I'll take this one.
Creepy: No way.
Me: Wanna bet?
Anyway. On our way to the party, all the negs and ignoring seemed to have worked. She approached me and came on really close, but I still kept a little distance for a while before i isolated her.
Once we were there, I met some really good female friend of mine, and I sat down there in between her and her friend (apparantly, it was good social proof, 'cause people later seemed to think I had a lot of girls going on
) and talked for a bit. Then I saw Mr.creepy approach my first target, and since there were about 5 guys to every girl on that island, plus that it was to dark to spot a new target, I thought "WTF, we're gonna see about this one, bro" and just went in, stole the girl away, took her for a stroll down the beach and later made a really strange trip back to the city (no need to mention that one) and went to eat.
Now I sit here, one # richer and feel really stupid and fooled, because I made that move mostly based on that the other guy shouldn't get anywhere
, and knowing I could have played great on just using social proof from the 5 out of 20 girls I knew there, and gotten more than a #-close. Actually, I probably could have made a k-close less than halfway in to that story, but just simply didn't care
That's what happens when you don't really make up the goal of managing a f-close for a night.
Hahaha, sorry about the long post.. still a little bit drunk and really bored, plus unhappy that the night ended like it did. So I made an unneccesary long FR about nothing really. Enjoy
CHAT
