ok guys my 3rd night sarging was shit, i opened 5 sets my first set must of totally fucked me! all started out cool i opened well using an opinion, then got on to girl coding when the swedish hb9 said to me " i read this in a book called the game"that fucked me lol
second set i lost it on my cold read, 3rd set i lost it on my cold read but these last 2 sets were going well i just lost my confidence the next two didnt even open lol
but i learnt that i no longer fear approach and that social proof and being the alpha makes a big difference aswell as confidence.
but i did it (keeping in mind i had no wing and was all on my lonesome)
and i love this game, because i know where i went wrong it wasnt my me
it was my material i should use a better opener in clubs what do you guys think?
well roll on tomorrow happy sarging

yea dude they might have read it in the game......but you can turn it around on them. what makes you think he didn't get it from me or something lol. as style says "it's not lying its flirting".

or you could say something like, "is she always this rude?" or "boy, lots of reading you must not get out much" or something lol

it's almost like thinking of a witty come back to a bully. neg her about it she'll turn around

keep sarging you'll get it we all have failures in the beginning, and I definitely still am lol just learn from your mistakes and improve. like every night i make a diary of sarges and look over what i did wrong and what i can do to improve.

i'm having my sticking points too so we can all help eachother out that's what we're all here for EACHOTHER

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lol, know how you feel man. I will give you the same advice I got. Do not rely on canned openers especially from the game. use the idea but not the line. my favorite opener in a club is to walk up to a hb set of ur liking, pick your target (if target is occupied, another bored hb in visual site of target)[easy targets are girls whose friends are dancing with guys but they themselves are just dancing with the group in essence they are dancing alone (they will be glad for the attention), or an hb dancing with a guy who you know your better than who you can save her from. you can tell when they look bored.) Next just approach from the front, with a swagger to the beat. dance within a couple feet for a few secs if she hasnt turned around or walked away grab her waist and grind away. dance as long as possible(more kino u have established the more comfortable she is with you), once the dancing seems to start slowing down ask her if she wants to take a break (drink, smoke, rest etc). If she agrees now you are already opened. and isolated. another good one,

plaid (dancing with friends): you need a dance lesson.

hb(dancing with friends): oh yea whata you got?

plaid: ill teach you but itll be about 3.50

dance away.

most of these involve dancing, because alot of girls go to clubs to dance, I find bars and places of interest more convinient for magic tricks and cold reading etc hope this helps

you need to make ur own openers or tinker with lesser used ones. and theres plenty of them.. steer away from the exact lines used on the pick up artist but take in the principals... if u cant think of openers theres a whole thread on openers here... just look over the good ones and change em up to suit you.