i was flirting with a beautiful girl a couple of nights ago in a club. All going very well and had started comfort building when a guy that she knows comes up and they have a long time no see hug. i did a classic 'introduce me to your friend', said hello to the guy and negged the girl. (not sure if this is the right way to deal with this type of interupt?) it was obvious they wanted to catch up so i rolled off and talked to another group then my friends. I wanted to reenter the set again but they were really engrossed and it was becoming very flirty so i couldnt really find a moment to do it before we left.

any ideas?

maybe i could have spiked his drink with laxatives and waited 10 minutes...

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'Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.' Dennis P. Kimbro

lol spike his drink? that would be entertaining, but then in reality you would be avoiding your problem instead of overcoming it, mainly take on the challenge.

a few things you should do strike a conversation with they guy, and leave her out, this will keep her interested and attention to you, tell a story and shut both of them out for a while, interupting his flow, when ever he speak interject with your own 2 cents ever once in a while, and then shut him out and isolate her again. Generally if you keep her attention he will panic and maybe get verbally or physically hostile, this is a perfect point to exploit his flaws and reinforce your self at the same time, the best way to reverse it would be say something, that he couldnt do anything about, say something that pisses him off but if he retaliates it only proves you right. if he gets verbally hostile or vulgar or starts to curse say something sharp, attack him intellectually, avoid curses, use them taste fully, say something that infers statistically speak the more you curse means the less you have to insult someone and the more fearful you are

Just open a new set.

Its about having a mindset of abundance.

i noticed you recently had your first kissclose guru, congrats i know what you mean about the mindset but as a pua i don't think any old chump should be able to steal a girl off your arm.

maybe amoging him would be a good idea from the start like grh recommends, but i couldnt see how to implement it in this situation. if anyone has any suggestions or what they would have done that would be great!

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'Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.' Dennis P. Kimbro

I would say that in some situations, there isn't really much you can do. If they really are friends, and you just met the girl for the first time, you're going to get shut out at least temporarily.

However, if you're dealing with another stranger approaching, by all means AMOG the hell out of him.

Here is something I have been playing around with. Make up and roleplay a fake story about how you knew each other in the past, and put your arm around her while you tell it. I blew these guys out last night by approaching, putting my arm around her, and making up this crap about how me and her went to high school together and she was my prom date. If the girls likes you, she'll go along with it ("Oh he was so sweet!). This is the girl I made out with afterward.

Anyways, about the opening another set thing; I just meant that it is usually easier to just open a new set than it is to salvage a damaged one. Its just a judgment call for you.