crashed and burned on my first day



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 4 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Real Life Gaming » Field Reports




Author Message
PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:39 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:08 am
Posts: 15
Patho*GEN : Hi.. Nice Earrings.. But Damn I Could Hoola Hoop In Those
HB: *Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique
Patho*GEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say?
HB : No I Cant Sorry, Im Running Late, Bye

She Basically Turned Away And Vanished After That. Do U Think I Made A Mistake By Saying "What Do U Say"

I Dont Know What I Cud Have Done Different, I Maintained Eye COntact, My Approach Was Direct, I Was Careful Not To Smile Too Much And I Used A Neg


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 11:06 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Sun Jul 29, 2007 4:38 am
Posts: 19
Location: Seattle
Sounded OK up until the second exchange
"Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? "

2 negs in a row is a bit dangerous, especially if she isn't a HB 9/10.

How would you rate her HB?

I think just aboout every book/expert on the Negging subject would agree that you shouldn't neg more than 2-3 times in a conversation, unless the HB is REALLY HOT.

I am not sure smiling is so bad, I smile all the time (just in diferent ways)

Onto the good point... you approached her and got her to respond with interest. You didn't stand accross the store saying "wow she is hot" and then walk away.

Also.... there are no mistakes! Just learning experiences.

Hope this helps

_________________
Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat. - Oscar Wilde


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 10:46 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:08 am
Posts: 15
Quote:
Sounded OK up until the second exchange
"Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? "

2 negs in a row is a bit dangerous, especially if she isn't a HB 9/10.

How would you rate her HB?

I think just aboout every book/expert on the Negging subject would agree that you shouldn't neg more than 2-3 times in a conversation, unless the HB is REALLY HOT.

I am not sure smiling is so bad, I smile all the time (just in diferent ways)

Onto the good point... you approached her and got her to respond with interest. You didn't stand accross the store saying "wow she is hot" and then walk away.

Also.... there are no mistakes! Just learning experiences.

Hope this helps
she was an HB9 but dats very subjective btwn people, she was really hot. but thanks man ill work on it. ill keep approaching people and talking to them to get rid of anxiety and i wont neg as much. Its jus that i have developed a sarcastic personality over the years and negging has become a part of me


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 1:24 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Jul 27, 2007 1:03 am
Posts: 26
Quote:
HB: *Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique
Patho*GEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say?

Nice opening.

Well, you negged her "fashion" or "style" directly after she told you her earrings makes her "unique". I'm pretty sure she took it as an insult.

You could have done alot more CF on her earrings and made her laugh. Also, do some DHV, rapport building and that you might have to go soon before you ask her to help you shop.

"what do you say" that was a little AFCish. Sounds needy and not alpha.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:08 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:08 am
Posts: 15
Quote:
Quote:
HB: *Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique
Patho*GEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say?

Nice opening.

Well, you negged her "fashion" or "style" directly after she told you her earrings makes her "unique". I'm pretty sure she took it as an insult.

You could have done alot more CF on her earrings and made her laugh. Also, do some DHV, rapport building and that you might have to go soon before you ask her to help you shop.

"what do you say" that was a little AFCish. Sounds needy and not alpha.
thanks for the advice man, what do you think i could have said instead?


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 5 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link