I'm not sure about it

that's your right. i'm just sharing my experience. by no means do you have to agree, or act on my advice. as always, find out for yourself.

just cos my photo is at the top of the page doesn't mean i'm right.

here's a magic line. joke it away, like "player? i am THE player. i got hos in different area codes, and you could be next!"

Classic PUA deflection, and it will keep things fun and change the mood and get her feeling good again. But it won't do anything to change the fact that you are going to keep getting this question forever until you change the things that are causing the question to come up.

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"War is not the answer. Love is."

never thought of it this way.
what do you think the general reason for it would be?
i've been getting this fairly often and i've never thought much of it.

could it be because i'm completely relaxed and unphased around hot girls? or is it mainly/purely because i have a lot of hot friends/interests who i flirt with?

Dont use stuff like Xbox player, football player etc. It just deflects the question and (as a general rule) HBs hate it when you don't answer the question more or less directly.

I like - "I'm no player, I'm a playapreciater!"

Also, the one about calling me a player being like me calling you a slut. That can be used so many ways...

The question could also be asked by an AMOG. but dealing with them would be easier - "I hate to dissapoint you; I'm not gay"

what about?
Her: Are you a player?
You: Yeah but your not my type.

Too aggressive lol? Obviously the way you deliver it would help.

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I'm loving it.


But hey, there's different ways of interpreting this, but no matter what, you probably took a wrong turn if you get called a player.

It's basically the same as slut.
which is bad.

And don't ever... ever go Nixon "I'm not a player"
That one is sure to label you forever. hehe


Call her on being rude, and ask what makes her think that.
That way you also have the information to use in the future on what type of behavior to avoid, or at least dampen if you sarge in enclosed social events.

like: "actually I take this as an insult, and I regret more and more I gave you interest, I woun't make a big deal about it, but I'm waiting for apologize"

could be because if you like to sleep with different girls all at the same time and make each one feel like she's special to you... but then lose interest when the sex isn't as hot...

you ARE a player, and you will never convince a girl otherwise.

so if you don't want to be called it, don't do it. otherwise, sack up and accept it.

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"War is not the answer. Love is."

Keep it simple:

Yes I am! Do you play warcraft too!?

Done. Stack forward.

your wife sarges with you!? .... awesome haha

This is a funny topic for me because when I go out with a group of friends and im having fun dancing and just being myself I always get that one girl that walks up to me and says:

HB: Your a player! (this seems so because i'm always with a big group of HB's, and I entertain all of them)

So when this happens to me I take it as an IOI and start to pick-up right there.

Me: Only when I'm Single! ---give high five---

BAM! Proceed with pick-up
NEXT!

I read about like half of it so I don't know if this has been solved yet.
First off, if you are getting this, you have probably put up some kind of mask she has detected and so she has decided to throw a shit test. Don't jump through her hoop. She will be expecting a no and justification or some kind of deflected response.
You shouldn't be getting the player question, but if you are, the best response would be to agree with her and go over the top. "Yes, absolutely. In fact, I have a pink hat, a cane, and handcuffs" (make sure you calibrate, this is an example I made up just now to sexually escalate) then immediantly cut it and continue gaming.

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One of my favorite and most asked questions... "Are you a player" . This is kind of a hard question to get an answer too but i found a great response.. So when a girl asks if you are a player just simply respond... " How did you know... Im into Football, basketball, and soccer.. You need to stop checking me out " C&F at its best.

Enjoy youll get some great responses... I did

are you a player?

That's not the question... the question must be, if I wanna play...? Yeah come we'll play together!

what about this one:

"are you a player?"
"if i was a player, talking to you would mean i'm interested in you, it is very arrogant to think that! or yet, you arent my type..."