Fuck that, you can ask. If thats what your feeling at the time, as long as its genuine, she will be feeling you, even if she says no. If you go by other people's "rules" you will never get anywhere. I've asked this plenty of times, and they say yes. or they would smile pretty big.

yea good deal ... its definately genuine when id ask ... just like in a nice tone to make em wet

I think you can ask, but always do it with CONFIDENCE. I did this till some girl taught me something else, we where walking out of de club just to have some private time, than she stopped en just said to me 'now where going to make out'. Man there are not much moments where i was blow out of the water as i was back then. Nowadays i use this alot and it works, if the time is right ofcourse...

When I've felt that it's *on* I've used Mysteries kiss close a couple of times now and it's never failed:

ME: "Would you like to kiss me?"
HER: "Yes/No/Maybe"

Yes/Maybe: *kiss*

No: "I didn't say you could, you just looked like you had something on your mind"
HER: *laughs*

Any time a girl has said no (more often than not actually), she has always, without fail, eaten the face off me within 2 minutes.

The only explaination for why this works is that asking straight out if a girl wants to kiss you, which rarely if ever happens to her, comes across super-confident and super-ballsy (presuming your body language is congruent with this!).

(Anyone familiar with the appocalypse opener will know the power of coming off super confident)

So from field experience, yes you can ask, just don't sound like a pussy when you do.

Just do it. Never ask.

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Don't ask her that, my way if I'm not sure is that I give her a hug (this works best if you are standing up) give her a good hug, really embrace her, when you both lean out, keep holding your arms around her, take one hand and move her hair out of her face (or touch her cheek if she has her hair back) if she looks in your eyes now she wants you to kiss her, lean in and go for it!

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yeh i agree if she was really giving u good ioi's it wouldnt kill the set if u asked, HOWEVER, i have never done it. when im ready for the kiss sometimes i jut go "i think we should kiss" or "im ready to kiss u" again some ppl would think this is bad but whatevs it doesnt really matter all that much when you're both into each other

Worked for me friday. I was getting tons of IOIs, and I didn't want to make out with this girl in front of my ex. So I asked "Do you wanna go outside and make out?" And ten minutes after that we were fucking behind a dumpster.

B-Man

Use Mysterys routine:

PUA - Would you like to kiss me?

HB -
answer #1: Yes - Go in
Answer #2: Maybe - PUA: Let's find out...then go in.
Answer #3: No. PUA: I never said you could, just was wondering. Brings in that cat-string i think.

dont ask straight up "can I kiss you?" terrible, like asking if shes attracted or not.

***Sorry if I have repeated anything...I just read the 1st page.

I've had a lot more success on the dance floor kissing a girl. I usually go for a kiss on the neck or the cheek and look at her response. I've had responses where the girl looks at me awkwardly/ walks away...or she immediately looks at me as if she had been intrigued which i then proceed to go for the kill.

I liked the idea in "the game" even tho I'm unsure of the name...something triangle? When you look at one eye then the other then her lips. I'm going to try that this weekend.

I use mysteries kiss question routine often. For example last night after talking to a girl deeply i said to her

Me- would you like to kiss me?
Her- no
Me- I didn't say you could you just looked like you had something on your mind

I then keeped talking to her for 15-20 minutes and then asked her again

Me-would you like to kiss me? If you say maybe ill take that as a yes
Her- maybe

I went in and made out with her infront of everyone at the bar

I agree with the chap who said never ask for anything

its simple really, look into the eyes, stop talking, look at the lips, then eyes again then lean in. Its simple when you practice it, who cares if you get blown out its practice at the end of the day.[/quote]

So clearly we have come to somewhat of a conclusion... and that is some people never ask, some people think it is ok to ask, as long as it is in the right way.

Obviously mystery's method works. Obviously looking into the eyes and so works also. At the end of the day it is really whatever suits the situation and whatever your more confident with.

And that you hook the girl!