This is one has worked for me 100% of the time. Spot an HB with a book in a coffee shop or a subway (or with a computer). Then just either sit next to her or stand close (if it's the subway). Ignore her completely for the next stop or for a while, especially until the people that were around her have gotten off the train. Then ask her what she's reading, and ask her if you can take a look at the book. Now do your magic and let her start talking about the book. Look for funny opportunities and soft neg (somehow the bad negs have not worked for me). Then say something about your conversation topic or about these other cool books that you have and that you want to let her in on (or you can change the topic to music and say you want her to give you links to her music or vice versa). Then just ask for the email, simple. She will almost always give it to you because that is the only way you can send her the links, music or info that you promised!!

The ones that have objected I have just gone like, "look it's only email, don't worry, I have tons of spam that I really want to send to someone and you might be just the right person!!...Don't worry maybe I'll just send some 25 emails a day!!"

Standing next to her for a while without saying anything might be weird. It can make you seem like you are trying to work up the nerve to talk to her.

I can see some flaws but overall its ok. I wouldnt ask to look at the book though. I would throw a neg at the book.

Depending on what sources you have around you try this. Try and catch the title of the book. Then if you have a phone or laptop around anything can get you as much info on the book use it. This you can then use to just say "What book are you reading?" When she tells you you have the basic knowledge to talk about it.

Meh....

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3 second rule here guys. just go for it. dont wait.

To me that sounds very similar to um.. oh whats it called again.. gee..
Normal conversation? That's the ticket.

Just goes to show that a really confident guy without game can get places with normal conversation. If you are going to ignore her for a while, make sure you never look at her, because then you have plausible deniability that you were not infanct trying to work the nerve up and that you were in fact just in your own little world.

Either way, good to see you getting success in casual day game! Good work.

ma brotha i agree

and i wasnt too fond the email objection.
reason: imagine how thought up that sounds to a girl.. a guy giving a detailed explanation like that

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I disagree, the fact that the explanation is so long and cocky, allows you to DHV some with your humor, and that might just be what is needed to get an email, but I would suggest to go for a number, because, emails can just be ignored, numbers will atleast allow you to speak to her.

ok vizualise this for a second. lets say your an afc - hypothetically of course. you see a hb next to yu reading a book. what is the first thing your going to ask then afc? hey. what are you reading? Not cool in pua world. or hher world. shes probably heard it 10000 times before. not - oh my god! the care bears proved that girls who read that book are a dweeb! are you different? no. what are you reading. great opener ^o). yes that was sarcasm bdw.
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lol. Ask her what she sgetting and tell her you need her advice. if she recommends one ting to eat get somethig else. f she recomends something to drink too, get what she watns. A little pull and push man. then go back to her and tell her u did not enjoy what she picked for u to drink and be like i think I would have liked to get something else. The she says "what?" and just had her ur phone. good luck bro

Personally Id never end up email closing any woman on this planet, how lame.... # close if nething, personally I never sit in front of a computer long enough to warrant using an email address, players are always on the road, or hauled up in bed lol

well.....it sounds pretty typical to do that, but I suppose if you have a confident enough body language and you are good with DHV'ing yourself and neging her and having good conversation after you open, it's fine.....but then again, that goes for any set.

The only problem with the book thing is that you definitely do NOT want to continue talking about the book too long.

Change topics and multi-thread. Talk about the book she's reading, but then also introduce your own interesting topic of convo.

If you let the convo become all about the book, unless she seems really interested in talking about it and giving you serious IOI's when conversing about it AND you honestly can talk critically and analytically about it, then the idea of her getting with you will be harder to push to the forefront of her thinking.

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girls with books?
take a look at the book and say: what a lame book it doesn't even have any pictures in it..